Search Results: can guys be just friends

Guys, Do you think a gal is being difficult just bc she doesn't "register" that you're hitting on her? Was this guy really being so obvious?

At a reception. My young single friend (F33 never married) spots a guy at the bar (M~49?). She casually glances over & gives me the "he's cute" look. I gesture for her to claim the empty seat next to him. She goes all...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

27 F single. I don’t have the desire to date anymore and don’t care if I find love. Is it okay I’m content with my life?

I (27 F) have been single for 2 years. This year 2026, will make 3 in the fall. My last long term relationship ended because my ex was a serial cheater and was using me for money sadly. We were together for almost 3 years...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I settle for friends with benefits as a serious relationship don’t exist? is a guy I don’t like the right guy?

I never had a serious relationship with, never met family never lived with a guy. I’m 28 and each year my hope gets lower. ill never get married as no one wants be my boyfriend , this means no one desires me no one dreams...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Would you forgive him for texting his ex behind your back?

When I first started dating my boyfriend, he had told me he had been cheated on (he caught his ex in their bed w another dude) and was traumatized by it. He had this girl in his phone who kept texting him named Victoria,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do You believe he thinks I'm stupid for letting him disrespect me for this long or no?

My boyfriend and I had been on and off for 8 years. I use to let him use my car, I paid for his house etc.. i even went far letting him stay in my home for free around my daughter. Sadly, though, Every time I needed help...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guys, Is the following statement true about guy's sexual obsession with a girl?

A guy told me the following. Lmk if you agree: A guy can get sex from whomever he wants whenever he wants. It's easy to find sex. If a guy is in front of YOU, he wants YOU. There ARE no friends, there are no exceptions....

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Break Up & Divorce

Does he still have a crush on me? Its been months since we saw each other? Do men move on?

There was a huge connection between one of my guy friends and I. We were friends for over 4 years only to basically become strangers again. We had feelings for each other and spent a bunch of time together but neither one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I right or wrong about partner and boundaries?

When I was with my ex he always to me had some really strong boundaries as in not letting anyone mess with him. When we got together and I was let into his world and throughout our relationships span there was never...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

How come it takes shorter amount of time? Do anyone else recognize this?

Years ago when I was let down by a friend, I eventually cut off, it took me longer to melt throughout. Now as it has happened with another friend I went through. everything in a matter of a few days, lot shorter, and now...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

I’ve been off and on with this guy, what should I do?

So I have been on 3 dates with him but never alone, always with my friend and his friend. We really clicked and talked but he never knew when to take me seriously cause im always joking and didn’t want to chase that much...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What’s his problem and is this a sign he treats all girls like this?

We’re both teenagers. I met him at work, and he thought I had a crush on him because I turned red. I tried to explain that I naturally blush easily, and it was summer, really hot, and I was sweaty too. He didn’t listen....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

What causes people to stay with obviously shit friends?

A guy I work with has all his friends tell him to stay with his fiancé because she’s the best he could do. The fiancé in question spends 70% of all his damn income, and he stays with her and the friends who say “she is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you date someone with different political views?

there's this guy who I really like and he's asked me out a couple of times but he's extremely left wing whilst im definitely not. Im British and he's American. We met due to work and were both constantly travelling...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are you willing to admit to yourself what you want in your relationship with the opposite sex?

All of us have certain goals and aspirations for our relationships with the opposite sex. (This MyTake is written for the majority of users who are exclusively heterosexual.) For different people, those goals may be 1. to...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Why do I repeatedly experience betrayal from other women in friendships/& in family specifically involving them crossing boundaries with my partners?

Why do I keep experiencing betrayal from other women in friendships? Every time I’ve had female friendships, I’ve noticed a pattern where some of them crossed boundaries with my partners making a move such as flirting,...

Imsodun19

Xper 3 Age: 22

Did my husband cheat or was it just an innocent bar hangout?

My husband went to go to a bar with his work colleagues. At 2.30 ( closing time) he tells me he’s leaving. At 3.18 am I ask him when he’s coming home - no reply - call 5 min later no answer. He texts me that he’ll call...

PlasticxTree

Xper 1 Age: 34

Girls, Guys, Writing on the wall?

10 years long distance. (brief breakup) 16 years total. Self employed in diff state where we both once lived. I moved after break up. He looked me up. Reconnected and he bought us a home in my state. Asked me to leave my...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)