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I had phrased something wrong, I said that I wanted to be a kinder person in general (I said it on social media), it was just stating a goal, being a little lighthearted, not trying to see attention, and someone of the opposite sex, that I hardly know, told me how kind and authentic she thinks I am. I don't really know the person, but I guess she's talking about the interactions we've had, and what I post. I apologized to her, because I took her compliment as her feeling sorry for me, and she said that she never thought that.

We met a couple of weeks ago and neither of us has ever had such good dates and such chemistry (her words, not mine). On our forth date we slept together a couple of times and the sex was perfect. After 3 days, I sent her a text that I was thinking about her all the time and wanted to meet her again. Which is when whe texted me that I was moving too fast into this and we are not on the same page and she'd rather end it before any of us gets hurt, even though she thinks I'm a "great guy" and she had so much fun on our dates.

Today, we'll be going out for coffee to talk about it and I can explain to her that it is just a misunderstanding and she can not hurt me.

It is important that you know, I'm 26 years old, have a couple of friends and a lot of hobbies. I've got a big flat and I do all right with girls. I'm busy and not at all desperate. I just want the connection we had.

Do you think she'd agree to continue going out with me?

E. g. for those 18+ and over who are actively dating or on dating apps, I just wanted to know or for those in early relationships, how much do you like or thrive "prepping" in the days leading up to a date or possibly sex after the date. Lots of showering or grooming or, minimal attention to grooming/body care/appearance. I'd like to think even as someone not actively dating, I like to look and feel pretty darn good 👍🙂😋

Picture this, you’re 3 dates in and everything is going great. Things get quiet for a moment and they tell you:

“just so you know, I’m looking for a specific type of relationship. I don’t want to restrict my partners sexual freedom in any way. I want you to be able to sleep with other people as much (or little) as you want. I will never ask you for the same thing. I really want to be dedicated to one person and I want that person to sexually free. My romantic feelings for you will never depend upon you denying your sexual desires for other people.”

“to be perfectly clear, I would like to know everything that happens, I don’t want to be surprised or unaware. I don’t want to be in a relationship where you don’t pursue other people from time to time. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to have sex with you, I definitely do. A one sided open relationship.”

(what I have just described is basically a cuckold/cuckquean/one sided-swingers/one sided open relationship)

Old stereotypes would have men loving this and women not but let me know what you think. :)

please post your thoughts :)