I met a man online and dated him over about five months. We seen each other at least 12 times. We are both middle aged and have been through bad relationships. Those dates often consisted of us being together and spending hours talking and laughing. He always says he loves spending time with me. I got to know him quite well as he did me and when we got into this “Situationship “neither of us expected to have it turn into anything other than a fling.
Anyway, I only had sex with him once on date number three. Then I was gone for about two months in a different country. We stayed in touch. When I returned, he wanted to see me and made time for me but would not have sex with me even tho we had agreed it would happen. He kept putting it off saying he wanted the right moment. He was very affectionate by holding hands, kissing my lips, face, hair and forehead and hugging me often. Anyway, this time, I caught feelings for him and told him and he said he really liked me, he really cared for me but he wasn’t ready for me as he was concentrating on business. I was OK with that initially and knew he wanted to see me in several weeks when I return. But over the past few weeks I have been feeling frustrated and alone so decided to end it with him in a very nice way by phone call. He didn’t quite know what to say but he did not seem to want to say goodbye. I then stopped contacting him in any way. After 4 days, he reached out by text saying he was “thinking of me a lot” and hoped I was well. I only responded by saying “I think of you too”. I didn’t respond to his last text that he hoped I was well. Then, the next day he restricted me on his Facebook page. I cannot see any of his posts. He has not blocked me and I can message him or reach out to him through other apps. He can also see my Facebook page. I will not be blocking him. I don’t play those games. Why would he do this, does anybody have any insight?
