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For some reason I never have matched vibes with a girl from my own ethnicity (Bengali). I have no problem in being friends with a Bengali woman but I can't see myself dating/marrying one.

Does that make me racist towards my own people? My parents certainly think it does lol. Thoughts?

I feel like there just isn't enough substantial evidence of improvement or actual plans that would benefit working class people like me.
I'm working class and sure I may not make a lot of money but I can't afford to lose Affordable healthcare, I can't afford to pay even more for goods because of tarrifs. I don't see anything good coming from not receiving compensation for all the over time hours me and people like me work. I dont see why lowering income tax for wealthier people would help people like me who aren't on the wealthier tax bracket, I'm not seeing how trump signing bills like "declassifying files on JFK, RFK and MLK Jr assassinations", "deploying military to the border", "ending funding for DEI programs", "limiting definitions of gender identity", "renaming the gulf of Mexico to gulf of America", or him pardoning January 6th defendants, or their massive book of honestly racist divisive plans in the Project 2025 his supporters made that he said he knew nothing about. Or how filling cabinet picks with unqualified people actually helps people like me living in america.
All it feels like is trump gets to do whatever he wants regardless of what people tell him they need or how worse off his actions and wants make the people who honestly supported him, he surrounds himself with billionaires that don't care at all about what happends to people in need, and maga supporters get down on their knees to either suck his dick, or kiss all 10 of his toes.
This is why I just can't support Maga and trump, I had a feeling things weren't right with him morally early on because of how he talked about American veterans, and him getting upset about losing the 2020 election, deliberately not being fully honest to his supporters that he lied when he said the election was stolen from him. If you like people who deliberately lie to their supporters, and find any excuse to justify breaking the law and being unloyal to the constitution. Then Trump is certainly your president.

Its a thought experiment. If you vote anything other than no amount of money could make me cheat you dont belong in adult relationships or marriage.

And if you vote, comment.

You make an explicit rule per the law... teen step daughter with temporary drivers license can only drive car you own/insure when another adult is in the car. It's the law in this state.

The rule is communicated and understood, but is violated. You give notice this is not allowed... don't do that again ever! Ok!

The rule is violated again a month later, under permission of your spouse whom gave permission. There was no emergency, just a desire to drive, and the teen driver asks (forgets or doesn't care) as well decides it's ok to violate the rule (oops)... and drives by themselves. "It's only a short distance" would be the justification. "It's not a big deal".

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Probability of being caught by police or accident is small... driver has lots of experience and cautious. However, they are hormonally off (PMSing... and historically, judgement is off at this time) and there is a dangerous intersection involved in the well known, 1 mile drive home.

Severity of punishment resulting from an accident is substantial. You face cost or jail...

A) Insurance will fight coverage in case of accident... since the teen was violating the law, they can wiggle out of paying in court... cost shifts to the owner of the car (you) and parent... if teen was at fault.

B) If teen is at fault in an accident and death/multi party occurred, the responsibility shifts to owner of the car (you) and parent. Owner of car (you) could face prison time. I'm not a lawyer, it's my understanding of the law... and it's a liberal state.

What should a good, responsible spouse do in this case?

How do you handle your spouse that disobeyed the rule... putting you at risk you don't want?

How do you handle your step child?

Welcome to being an adult, and real life...