she’s like 14 and i get that she’s just a kid, but whenever me and him are together he always just wants to talk about her. but her attitude towards me was just plain rude and was unhappy and i didn’t know why it was like that and it was unpleasant.
i even asked him that he could bring her along when we go out for coffee/lunch cause he really wanted to bring her but then he would change his mind and say no.
so then just a few days ago he was gifting me something and then he mentioned that it was his sisters birthday but i got angry cause it felt like it was a demand that i call her and wish the kid a happy birthday and the fact he refused to bring her along when i told him that he can tag her with us when we go out.
like i just got really angry that i told him to take his bullshit and get out of my face and dont fuckin speak to me again and i blocked him. not the best move but what more can i say when i tried to make a place for his sister cause he cared about her but didn’t take my consideration at any level even though i was uncomfortable about it.
it’s been nearly six days since the fight. i blocked him on whatsapp but he can still text me on via message.
i just felt like he didn’t respect my consideration i was making for his adopted sister and even though i didn’t comment anything rude about her i felt like he was looking down on me.
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Sounds like he is a little to close for comfort with his adopted sister and for whatever reason he feels obligated to be there for her , so if I was in your shoes , I would just stay broken up and move on. He clearly isn’t choosing you over choosing her , which is really messed up if you ask me , he might be a pedophile , that has the hots for his 14 year old adopted sister , which is some creepy shit. When a guy really likes a girl , he will make her his top priority over everyone else , including his friends and family , so on your case , he is making his adopted sister his priority over you. You are best to move on from that weirdo and find yourself a guy that chooses you over everyone else
Sister>girlfriend. Though if the two of you don't get along I don't know why your bothering to try get along with her or why he's bothering to try make you get along with her.
It's not needed. She don't need to like you nor you like her for him to like his sister. Makes no sense.
Sounds like he needs Chris Hanson and you're just the cover up