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So, I am a second-generation immigrant from a very traditional and conservative country, now living in one of the most liberal Western countries in the world. I am very grateful to be living here as the quality of life and opportunities are just a lot better; however, needless to say, the cultural differences are immense.

One of the things that always bothered me growing up was this "rush" to lose your virginity, especially as a guy. My friends would drag me along to clubs and stuff, and I'm not a bad-looking guy by any means, and opportunities for me to have "one-night stands" have presented themselves, but I never really had any interest in this.

Call me corny, but the idea of being intimate with someone I do not have a very strong emotional connection with, someone who couldn't be my wife in the future, did not appeal to me.

Guys talk about this stuff, and I am open about this in my friend group as I don't feel like lying about it, but I find myself being the subject of "virgin" jokes quite often, especially considering my age (which isn't an abnormal thing in my home country).

Now, I know it's all in good fun and I know they have no malicious intent, but I can't help but wonder if this would be a problem for potential future mates. So my question to you girls is, if a guy you were dating in his mid to late twenties said he was a virgin, would you immediately associate that with negative attributes? Would this be a problem or perhaps not your first choice, would you be indifferent or heck even prefer it?

Serious question,

Inspired as countries evaluate a woman as their leaders...

Some women have severe emotional and mental change due to hormonal swings. I've had more than one woman say, they wouldn't vote for a woman as President... and this a reason. I've not heard it from guys so much, but I suspect they think it... we'll find out.

Is this something you evaluate when voting/supporting for a woman for powerful roles... that some women have substantial hormonal change, monthly, that impacts their decision making and work abilities?

Those whom have not seen women's severe mood swings due to hormones may not understand how that influences their thinking and decision making abilities.

Unless you are very close to the woman, you may not be aware of PMS/PMS DD/ mood swings. But it can impact substantially... decision making (I assume women would agree with this statement).

Lots of information and videos you can learn about, if you hadn't before became aware.