Search Results: first thing a guy notices

Is this self sabotage or am I justified in my feelings?

So I’ve been dating this guy for 4 months. The beginning was great. I was falling in love and very happy. More recently I’ve been noticing things about his behavior. He talks a lot about his job and sports and I feel as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

In the same way women are cautious about self proclaimed "nice guys", men need to be cautious about very religious women?

Something I've noticed about a lot of modern women, is how often women with cruel intentions appear to side with their faith. On the outside, they do things like post bible verses daily, have things like God Firt on their...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is he interested in me?

During the first week of December 2022 I met my co-worker and we hit it off, from the beginning, in terms of conversation flow and being able to relate to each other as the youngest individuals in the office. I always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

My co-worker sent me a text message asking me, If I liked him more than friends, but refused to answer, are these signs of interest?

We met on the first week of December 2022 and hit it off, from the beginning, in terms of conversation flow and being able to relate to each other as the youngest individuals in the office. I always kept a friendly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

If a guy asks you if you like him more than a friend, is that a sign he might be interested in you?

I officially met on the first week of December 2022 and hit it off, from the beginning, in terms of conversation flow and being able to relate to each other as the youngest individuals in the office. I always kept a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy friend invites you to his birthday party?

Its going to be me him, my female friend and one of his guy friends. He invited me to go with them to Las Vegas on July for his birthday. Its going to be me my female friend and his guy friend who will be going halves on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

My friend is sending mixed signals?

I've got a crush on one of my female friends and recently we've began to hang out quite a lot. After a while things broke off between myself and the girl I was dating and my friend with the guy she was dating. We now...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Do very rich people care more about loyalty?

One thing I notice in the very rich people I know - ones with Ivy League degrees in medicine, or Wall Street jobs, or hundreds of employees underneath them, is they are very loyal to the people who loved and respected...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Society & Politics

Is there a reason I am so hated?

Yesterday this ignorant guy who was a customer made fun of the way I look after I helped him. I turned around to ask a question to a coworker and he said "her broke a. S weave." And then he started laughing. This is a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

My recent ex says she doesn’t deserve me. what can that possibly mean since she admits that she doesn’t want to feel sad for leaving me?

she broke up with me on Monday after claiming she was losing feelings because i was overthinking about our future and reminiscing over the past, so my energy was different than when we first started dating. we first...

fibs4kt

Xper 2 Age: 20

Dating

Guy at work acting weird.. How would you take his behavior?

I was seeing this guy for a while that I work with. A month ago, we discussed where we stood and said we are dating and just getting to know each other, but after having a great date and him going all out (buying flowers,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is it normal behavior that he’s acting this way?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I be worried about our sex life?

boyfriend and I been together going on 4 years, he wasn’t a big sexual guy and I initiated things a lot but he enjoyed. Lately as we progress into about to move in phase after school is done with and we’ve adjusted into...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Was he just complimenting me or flirting?

There’s a nice guy who started at my job today. I didn’t talk to him at first and did the awkward dance around him before we actually eventually got to talk. He did glance at me a few times from throughout the store and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why are modern men NOT Prusing women any more?

I've noticed that men seem to like me maybe even be interested in me but not enough to prusue. I've noticed this with other attractive well put together women as well, its not just me. I once liked a guy and we had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Part 2: Nice Guys Aren't Actually Nice

So keep in mind, this is the same exact "nice guy" that you all completely roasted my ass about while victimizing him in the last take. Despite all of that though, I did my best to give him another shot because of course...

Bre_0611

Xper 4 Age: 28

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Flirting

Should I make the first move?

This guy and I have worked together for about 6 months, he is usually friendly and conversational with everyone so I assumed he was just being nice. We had a company event where he latched on to me, and got pretty touchy,...

asharxo

Xper 3 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

I noticed women sometimes posting really stupid questions about how the guy they rejected is now “ignoring them”. Is it just selfishness or guilt?

First off there is absolutely nothing wrong if a woman (tactfully yet directly) rejects a man who is interested in her romantically. It’s 100% the right thing to do (if it’s done respectfully) because the guy now knows...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What’s a good word choice to breakup with this guy?

I want to make it clear to this guy why I’m breaking up with him but I want to use my words carefully. I started off feeling like I could be myself because of our long friendship and because I thought he appreciated me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why do I choose men who dont choose me, advice on guy?

I've noticed I have this pattern of choosing friends and potential lovers. Recently I stopped contact with a guy I met in December. I was the only 1 initiating texts to say hello and I asked him to hang 1 on 1 two times....

Anonymous

(36-45)