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People cheat. Sometimes people cheat on good people for almost no reason. Most people will bend the internal morality of their actions around their wants and desires. People will swear on their grandmothers grave they’d never sleep with somebody after meeting them once, and then shock themselves by sleeping with THAT person when they eventually encounter them.

Love is essentially transactional, not just monetarily but emotionally and physically. Sometimes people just don’t want to be with you any more. Looks are a MASSIVE part of attraction. Comfort kills attraction. Your partner is not yours, it’s just your turn.(MOST relationships will end sooner or later). Most people believe they’re more righteous and principled than they are. Morality has nothing to do with arousal. Both genders are struggling to find fulfilling partners because one side has grown weak and one side is now free to select for what they want which is the best of the best. Certain immutable traits are key. Most relationships after a couple of years are routine and not sexually fulfilling. People are nowhere near as unique in their behaviour as they think they are.

Is everyone out there trying to use, break hearts and cheat? NO. Most human beings are very much looking and trying consciously to attain and build the perfect, unconditional, long lasting loving relationship. That’s their conscious motive. But life is life and it truly hits people harder and at weirder angles than they could possibly have anticipated. Good sweet innocent people surprise themselves. The righteous fall. Most are not as strong or as selfless as they think. Those who believe they deserve the world can only actually attain very little. There is no such THING as deserve, there is, isn’t, won’t, will and can and can’t.

To simply DENY all this stuff is a product of either lack of exposure or choosing to deny. Which is fine.

My wife was talking to her sister everyweek living in another city 4 hours away and her sister's husband comes town and takes her out to lunch before i met my wife, he knew my wife was divorced and single probably her sister told him, my wife says nothing happened that night, but when i became her boyftiend , her brother in law comes to town again and invites her to his hotels bar for a drink i was her new boyfriend and no one knew about me but my wife told me if i would go with her so we went to see him together, she did not want to go by herself to see him , so it seems like we start seeing her sister and him a lot afterwards, this continued after we got married , we went trips vacations and eating out at least once a week , we even stayed in their house some weekends , i usually get up late but wife always gets up earlier and i woke up earlier to go to bathroom i saw her in the kitchen hugged and kissed her brother in law on the cheeks while he was making coffee and usually have conversation together untill i woke up about the same time as her sister while my wife an him alone in living room drinking coffee or watching tv i guess , when i was with him alone he was telling me dirty stuff like sleeping with another women cheating, do you think my wife has or had an affair with her brother in law? When my wife retired , i was working and we had one car she would go to see her sister and him once a week after we moved 20 minutes away from their house , my wife says she just went to book store and shops with her sister but sometimes he would go with them or cook lunch for them. Our sex life wasn't great with my wife. One day he gave me some viagra pills out of blue, and when i was retired he was kind of nasty or not talking much with me i guess my wife was not free anymore because always with me, and one day we were in their house for holidays my wife was dressed real nice he all of sudden said to me i only took your wife to dinner once and you better stay with her