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so I've been friends with this girl for about half a year now and always had a tiny little crush on her but nothing crazy and it never got in the way of us having a great friendship. But recently we had a dry period of about two months where we became distanced due to no mutual classes and busy schedules. I wanted to fix this friendship so now that it's spring break I invited her over to watch a light hearted movie. The hangout was going well and then we started to get a bit closer on the couch. I started playing with her hair and she then laid her head on my chest so I could be more comfortable doing so. this was kinda crazy and having the weight of her head on me while we watched started to reawaken my feelings and I got butterflies. I even started telling her how nice her hair was and that I could do this all day, even caressing her head a bit too. this went on for like 10-15 minutes and she even stayed on me after the credits started rolling. this was a really awesome moment for me but the following 2 days she just acted like nothing happened. she is still talking to me like im her friend even calling me bestie so that is pretty much telling me its over. I asked if we could watch another movie since I had one in mind and she responded to me pretty unenthusiastically saying maybe sometime but she was very busy and she isn't free for over a week. if there's any advice or interpretations of this behaviour id appreciate it because its not looking to good for me.

So I’ve been texting with this new girl from work for about 2 weeks now. We text every day and the contribution to the conversation is equal (she will text first as much as me, and she will talk as much as I do).

I noticed last night a pattern that I’m concerned with. We will have very brief conversations during the day when I reply to a meme she sent or vice verca, but that’s it. Neither I nor her have ever texted anything like “how are you” to each other to start a conversation. Also with big gaps in time, like she will take an hour to respond, and then of COURSE I have to take an hour to respond too. This is mostly how it is during the day. Subpar.

However at night, really anytime past 7pm, we have a fluent text conversation that might persist for hours. This has been every night for 2 weeks. Suddenly her replies are instant and of course I reciprocate that so it keeps going. Or if she texts first she will just randomly send me something that happened to her or how she’s feeling about something, except only at night! Anyway as I said we both engage in conversation equally, there’s no disparity where one of us is pulling more weight. I’m simply concerned that it looks like she only cares about conversing properly during late hours when she’s bored.

What do you women think, is this a sign that #1 she texts me out of boredom, and #2 she isn’t interested in me?