Search Results: men not getting what they want

Why am I unable to get what I want from some men that are more interested in a short-term relationship, from online but while I met one guy in person?

Online dating hasn't gotten what I want from interested in getting into a long term relationship. I only met some men that some men that I didn't meet since they were taken and were lying about being single. The other two...

CaitlinSims25

Xper 5 Age: 27

Why do men hate older women so much?

We all age. We all grow old, but why do men hate the fact about women getting older? What do you want us to do? How do we stop aging and stay at a certain age forever? If any of you have solutions, please put them down in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

I want to ghost him do bad how to handle it properly?

I usually ghost guys when I feel they only want sex, I have a deeper feeling or when is getting serious like with him. This time is because of my illness mostly my anemia is getting worse. I’m not ready or can...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm going to settle for an older man I'm not in love with but if he already knows this (he knows and doesn't care), no harm done right?

The now 46 year-old was an acquaintance from the longest; I was then 18 when we met but declined him for a date. Let's call my ex boyfriend Joe and him Charles. When I was 23 and he was 38, Charles made an offer I've...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When two people are dysfunctional (in their own ways) do they usually make each other worse or improve each other?

There are “co-dependent” relationships. A hypothetical example is the woman is alcoholic and the man is a compulsive gambler. They tolerate each others major flaws because they know they wouldn’t be tolerated long by a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you install dating apps on and off every couple of months, is that an indication you actually want a relationship?

29F, I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’m under the impression that I want a relationship as I install apps on and off. I’m at the point where I get drained when they’re installed & when I’m not in the mood...

Anonymous

(30-35)

29F, I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’m under the impression that I want a relationship as I install apps on and off. I’m at the point where I get drained when they’re

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Society & Politics

When asked on another website what Biden stands for 6 people in a row said "Google it". A man answered"I did and there's nothing there". Are D a cult?

Also the way Democrats all say the same thing about Trump "I hate him". The same answer always comes up because they hate him. That is cult behavior! It's short, it's something they can all remember when asked. They...

sage2021

Master Age: 71

Does no mean no?

When a women sets boundaries about what she wants and you respect them, why does she get upset? I was taught to respect a woman's wishes and the courts back this up that "No" means no, period and not anything else. So why...

adventurous-1

Xper 6 Age: 71

Why do girls flirt so heavily but don't actually like you?

I always assumed women wouldn't want to signal to unwanted men any hints of interest by accident lest they trigger him to pursue her and annoy her. But I swear to God I am getting so much interest from women or so I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why should a guy ask a young woman's hand in marriage if women initiate divorce 80+% of the time, especially in western countries?

As a kid and into adult hood, I have an old school mentality of getting married. I'm not a guy who wants to play around. But today, I see more girls getting divorced. Using dating apps I see women in their 20s or 30s or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

For those having issues with the opposite gender, what would you say to a baby?

Scenerio: You've had terrible experience with the opposite gender to the point you trust them or are avoiding getting involved seriously with them. It can be a woman that had bad experiences with men or a man that had bad...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Isn't it amazing how it takes one person to completely destroy you and another to lift you up?

I'll refer to my first boyfriend as John and my companion/fiance as Paul. My case with John, the narcissistic-sociopath: I got lovebombed for years, scammed with money and he nearly destroyed my fertile years. He lied...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys aren't super into me even though they asked for my number and say theyre so attracted to me? Im always WAY more excited about them?

I've never had a boyfriend or much male attrntion but lately I've been getting more attention. Like guys just aren't excited about me as i am about them. They put in zero effort to see me or engage in good convos over...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How betrayed (1-10 scale) would you feel if they had a child without your consent?

If either your girlfriend/wife lied about taking the pills or your boyfriend/husband poked holes (deliberately getting you pregnant) and you find that out many years later, how betrayed would you feel on a 1-10 scale?...

Danielle93

Guru Age: 33

Girls, Why does it feel like that being autistic in a dating scene is as red flag?

As an autistic male I find it difficult socialising, forming friendships but it’s even more difficult talking to girls, attractive girls and getting into a relationship. I never been in relationship beside and I’ll be 30...

JamieRobinson1994

Xper 6 Age: 31

Why would a woman have a child with a boyfriend?

Honestly that's not the best position for a woman that wants to form a family. She's still not getting commitment from him and she has a higher chance of being another single mother if he breaks up. Less she's going to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do we waste more time and tolerate too much while men leave?

Given that we have a biological clock and have more to lose if we can't get a serious, family-oriented man during our good years, that should be a major reason to dump bums asking us for money, men not proposing within...

Rainbowxoxo

Xper 3 Age: 29

Is it too late to get my mother back with her ex boyfriend?

When I was 12, she broke up after I created a couple lies about him. I wanted him out of our lives because at the time I was still dealing with my dad's passing. I didn't want any other man taking his place so I hated...

Anonymous

(18-24)