Search Results: scared of sex

I’ve made a mess of my love life what do I do?

So, a few months ago I started talking to this guy and everything was going well and then things evolved and we ended up having sex. he said he wasn’t opposed to a relationship in the future but he wanted to just keep...

Anonymous

(25-29)

We both make mistakes but I feel like I’m the only one who is understanding and tries, so I walk away?

I’ve been dating a guy for about 2 months. We have been having sex and I told him this is the first time I’ve had sex w someone who wasn’t my boyfriend. I was okay with it for a while until the guilt started to hit me. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Friends with benefits had me meet his mom and now I’m confused?

So don’t judge me but I actually haven’t even known this guy for a week, it’s only been 4 days and yk we had sex a few times, hence why he is a friends with benefits. Anyways, he talked about how he was hoping our little...

Sarahloveskorn420

Xper 1 Age: 21

I told him I wanted to wait for sex and he got defensive, why?

We’ve already had sex. He got mad at me over and Instagram post, I didn’t even know. I don’t even know what I posted and he didn’t remember either when we talked about it. He just started ignoring me. I got so upset after...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How does one cope with the trauma or seek justice?

Hi all, My friend recently bought up an interesting but unfortunate discussion with me about his partner the other day. A few years before he met his Girlfriend when she was 20, she moved into a flat with another...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I trust him or not?

Hello guys, So I met a guy 10 days ago at a crew house hostel where I’m staying… I’ve been single for 2 years and wasn’t necessarily looking for anything and BAM it hit us😂 It is love at first sight for the both of us,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

As a person that grew up around domestic violence how do I break free from the cycle now?

me and him have been fighting for the last couple of days. two days ago he came to my house and i told him he was a dog he got his hand around my throat and said "yeah? let me go then" we ended up having sex with his hand...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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"Why I Push Women Away": How One Man's Personal Revelation Linked Back to His Father's Affair

This is the real-life story of one man, and his journey to discover why he leaves. I listened to this last night, found it very interesting, and thought I'd share it with you today. "Why did I leave?" "Why did I lose...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Virgin 27M with older experienced woman, how to deal with certain things?

I'm 27 and still a virgin. I work out often to maintain a certain physique, am tall, heavily tattooed and told I'm supposedly attractive, I just had other things going on in my life, career to pursue, studies to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to attract women when shy?

As I got older this kinda started to bother me a little more I’ve always felt like I was an attractive dude but I seen to never get with women due to my shyness and my inability to hold interesting conversations in text....

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend has been getting soft recently while we are having sex does he think im unattractive?

It has happend 3 times and it's making me feel really insecure and embarrassed I'm scared it might happen again does he not find me attractive anymore?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I go to a trip with my ex?

We have plans to go to Indonesia together but we been fighting too much, we already broke up but we have our plane tickets booked and don’t want to waste my money. Should I go? I’m scared that we going to have sex!!

Anonymous

(18-24)

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How to deal with PTSD attack's?

So I'd gone out a little while with some friends to try and have a good time. Though the place we went to was closing soon so there weren't many other people there at that time. There were a lot of guys though and most of...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I indicate that I want a relationship without scaring men off?

I (26f) am really ready to find The One and settle down + have kids. I want to meet guys who want the same thing and who are a good fit. However, whenever I meet a guy we'll flirt and end up having sex and then he will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I ask him?

I've been "dating" this guy for 8 months, we recently had sex last month. I'm not sure where we stand I never asked, but we were going out for 6 months before we even kissed. He cooks for me, we hold hands, we cuddle, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you guys think I should do in this situation?

I was talking to this guy from hinge. everything was going well. He ask me if I was a virgin so I says yes! I thought he would be turned off by that but he told me he wasn’t so he asked me why I haven’t had sex and I...

Ilovenutella24

Xper 3 Age: 26

I like this guy, but I'm afraid that he might not like me anymore if he knew I still lived with my parents, what do I do?

I don't know what to do in this situation. I'm afraid that this guy won't like me anymore if he knew I lived with my parents. He has his own place and his own car. I really like him but I'm scared he won't like me...

Candycanelove

Xper 2 Age: 39