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• I have a male friend who is bisexual.. He told me few weeks ago he is recently interested in guys rather than girls. He just had a guy ghost him last month We are super close coworkers and became friends at work. He is really sweet, he always texts me if im coming in tonight or he asks the boss to pair us up at work He compliments my jewelry, or if i curled my hair that day he is the first one to notice. Once after our shift i told him i was cold and he invited me up in his flat made me coffee, gave me one of his hoodies to wear. He showed me pictures of his family and told stories about them. Next day i showed up at work wearing his hoodie. He complimented that it looks nice on me. I wore it through the shift and i wanted to give it back to him but he said i should keep it in case i'll be cold again. But ofc i gave it back because i didn't want to steal it. I talked to one of my other guy friends once and he told me jokingly that i cheated on him. Then he started telling me things like that guy is hot/ who is that pretty blonde over there? I told him that she was this handsome guy's girlfriend the next day i pointed at him and told him that is the boyfriend of the blondie He remembered that i said he was handsome and commented on it that if i think that guy is handsome than my bar is really low. So i asked who is handsome then, like where should the bar be. He said "me".

Or this other time he said he likes it when some1 is cuddly I asked him why he told me that. He said no reason, but asked:why? Am i not cuddly? Also laughed it off.. He is always teasing me tho with my height and basically with everything. But he also said my friends were pretty girls but didn't include me.. But him mentioning that he checked this guy's pics and my friend being pretty or so on, maybe all this could be just him making a new friend?

My ex and I went through a lot of fights. Regardless, we managed to make it work because of our strong emotions. Just before our breakup, it reached a point to where he was calling me names and bringing up my family, basically no respect left on his part & coming at me for little things like me saying “thanks” instead of “thank you.” I blew up on him eventually & mentally checked out. 1 day we got into a fight and he said he’d block me (something he does when he’s mad). I then accepted some requests from guys- i was really mad-on social media (didn’t message them and deleted them later. He found out and hell broke and also found platonic msgs between a male friend I’ve known for 5 years. Those msgs included funny memes. I stopped being friends w/ this guy for him. He asked to check my phone, I didn’t agree because he should trust me & wouldn’t want him to think it’s ok to check my phone whenever he feels the need in the future. We ended up breaking up. We kinda kept in touch though to reconcile. Weeks turned into months leading up to us meeting in person. As we were chatting, he told me his expectations which included he checks my phone, I agreed. Then he asks to see my male followers to ask how I know them. I told him some are friends (since HS) and he didn’t like that. He said he doesn’t like his girlfriend to have male friends & I should take off whoever he doesn’t like. I had a reaction and didn’t let him check my phone so ofc he had major issues. We never got back together but now we’re surfacing the relationship again he told me of the same expectations. I’m really conflicted and don’t know if getting back with given expectations are normal or not. Is getting back a good idea?