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So there’s two girls.. let’s call one of them April. She been with her babydaddy over 12 years now. Well she has a history dating multiple men. nevertheless, she kicks them out and run back to her babydaddy. This girl we can call April got involved with a married man. She knew about the woman but didn’t know the man was married. However, her sister knew the entire time but didn’t tell her. Multiple family members knew but didn’t tell her.
she was giving this man money and couldn’t even get the man to even pay a bill for her. She was taking care of a man with two jobs, who still is married to his wife.

another woman we can call “Daph” was another woman involved with this married man. Spent more than 10k on him and was giving him advice about the other woman April. The married man was calling both women to get advice and to vent about one another. The married man always referred to them as “friend”. Daph found out he was married by Facebook.

the married man wouldn’t let either one or their relatives tag him in anything on Facebook. he didn’t add either woman on his social medias. You weren’t allowed to post anything romantic on his page. He had post approval on.

well the girl April found out about the married man but couldn’t get information on her, so she started digging.

The married man has his wife living like a queen. Both women are currently trying to fight the wife. The wife is a stay at home wife and has a private chef. She gets her own money. they just bought a home together. his wife don’t have to worry about anything.

all this went down on Facebook.

I can think of one example in my life and one example in a friend's life where a guy was interested in her and also another time where a guy was interested in me, when I resisted they pursued but when I pursued, they resisted. I did not date the guy cause he was turned off by the fact I initiated contact but when I avoided him he would sacrifice other events to chase after me, but this was years and years ago.

My cousin says the same thing to her friends that if you want a guy to like you, you should ignore him. I don't know if she still gives advice cause she is at the age where a lot of her friends have settled down and are no longer on dating sites.