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Did he not like me? what’s going on?
This was several months ago now. I had a classmate from my cohort. An international student from Europe. Our career path is very female dominated, so he's one of the only guys in the class. He's also one of the only good...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a red flag when the woman never messages me first (but always responds when I message)?
I’ve started to get to know a young woman who I met a social gathering a few weeks ago. It’s been friendly / playful but I straight up told her at one point I was interested. That should be obvious to women when a man...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I wrong for judging books by their covers?
My family has an empty apartment in the city center, and instead of handing it over to an agent, I decided to manage the rental myself. My only rule was "families or students only." I’m paranoid about this because years...
capriVib
Explorer Age: 23 Ladies, what would your first conclusion be if a man told you that he doesn’t like women?
I’m gay and just wondering what a woman might think before I say that. I don’t want her to take it the wrong way because I have several close friends who are women.
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you handle Double standards in relationship?
Pls I know this is long but I need help and perspective My boyfriend and I has been together for over 8 months He got a lot of issues especially his friendliness with girls, he got many girl best friend's most of them he...
Anonymous
(18-24) "I've started having obsessive thoughts about my boyfriend's previous relationship. How can I overcome this?
I am going through a period where I feel incredibly mentally sensitive. I find myself constantly crying over this issue; my tears just won't stop. I love my boyfriend deeply. He is my first love, but I am not his....
Anonymous
(18-24) Was my ex a Narcissist?
So my ex, when we started dating. She would be a lot affectionate. She would write me handwritten letters at random times. But after that the first month she would only write one letter throughout the month. When I asked...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guy friend keeps taking off my glasses, is he flirting?
My guy friend kept taking off my glasses all night. The first time he took them off he said in a silly tone “you’re so gorgeous you don’t need these” and the second time he took them off he was joking about characters in...
Wolfski
Xper 1 Age: 23 Advice on shy guys?
There’s a guy in my class called Alex. He’s cute, shy, and not very talkative, but he acts differently around me compared to other girls. We’ve spoken a few times — first during lunch with a mutual, where he laughed at my...
Bunnyloppy123
Xper 1 Age: 18 How do I tell a guy nicely that he talks too much?
I went on a second date and this man spoke for two hours straight about himself, ... again. First time around I thought it's because he is nervous. I tried to get some comments in but he spoke over me each time. During a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Pt3: Should I be blamed if I told my friend I was taking spiritual precautions and a few years later she experienced something spiritual involving me?
In this paper, I expressed my concerns and even gave a current dream. When my ex and I were dating, he said sometimes he felt uneasy at my apartment. When we went on a trip together, he had a bad nightmare and I had to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I follow him on instagram?
Backstory: There's this guy who dated a friend/aquaintance of mine two years ago. They were only dating a couple months and now she's marrying a woman and lives multiple states away. Anyway, a few months ago I saw his...
Sassafras123
Xper 1 Age: 28 Anonymous
(30-35) Girl told I burnt that bridge a long time ago dating?
I’m so confused first I see this girl everyday because I work with her. Anyways she asked me if I liked her or her friend ( I told her I liked her) then she asked me how many girlfriends I have. blushed when I gave her a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I a bad person if I am glad that my now ex-wife had a miscarriage (we were still married when she lost the "baby")?
After we had been married for a few months, my wife at the time (now ex-wife) stopped taking her birth control pills completely without my knowledge, and naturally, she ended up becoming pregnant soon after. I do not know...
deaddude7734
Xper 1 Age: 50 How do you know if someone has a crush on you?
I am trying to figure out if my friend (s) there is more than one obviously are alluding to liking me or if they are just making conversation. We are not super close but I feel like they are trying to leave the friendzone...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Is it just me or is she being ridiculous?
My friend accused me of both invalidating her feelings and calling her incoherent. This is not the first time something like this has happened, and lately I feel like I try so hard, because I care about her, she has been...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I sabotaging a good man or is he moving too fast and crossing my emotional boundaries?
I’ve been talking to a guy since May. He’s kind, respectful, emotionally available and very serious about me. He openly talks about marriage and a future together. On paper, he’s everything I say I want, a loyal,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it okay to fall in love within eight months of breakup?
For context, it was a long distance relationship. We met each other online, the relationship was entirely online (except two short meetings) and we eventually broke up. He had horrible mood swings, he treated me very bad...
Anonymous
(18-24) How Do I help My Friend Who Just Got Her Second DUI?
I've been friends with her for about 5 years now. She's struggled with alcohol for as long as I've known her. She's tried to go sober multiple times and will be doing great for a while, but then she'll relapse. She's a...
emeraldsaphire
Yoda Age: 31 