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I fucking HATE being skinny! I get told “You are damn skinny!” “Eat” “I need to fatten you up.” I am TRYING TO PUT IN WEIGHT. My bigger girl friends thought I was crazy for wanting to put on weight. I wish chubby or thick girls would understand that skinny isn’t always great. You’d be surprised that a lot of skinny girls actually HATE being skinny and wish we had your curves! I would love to have a womanly figure. I’m currently 99lbs and 5’3. I’m trying to put in at least 30 pounds! Thick and curvy girls should start embracing their curves! So many women prefer that I thin!

I want to be thicker! I want my thighs to touch!

Ladies we’ve been brainwashed thinking thin is the ideal body! It isn’t! We’re all beautiful! Embrace those curvy bodies!

How can I gain 30 pounds? My thick/chubby friends don’t understand how tough it is to be a skinny girl? It’s no fun. I think they’re better looking than me. Men prefer them over me.

I have two friends: both are 40, have chosen the single life for years. One is a guy, he was friends with a girl in her early 30’s for a year and dated her casually for a year before he finally decided she was the one and asked her to be his girlfriend. After one year of seriously dating, he proposed marriage at Christmas. They married two months later. He’s a guy, we’ll call him Ryan. Him taking his time is fine.

The other friend is a woman (we’ll call her Tara), she’s been “seeing” a guy (also 40) for at least 9 months. They haven’t labeled it yet, every time I ask her when she’s labeling the relationship she always says “we’re taking our time with it, keeping it casual and just being friends first”. I love Tara, but she’s out of her freakin mind. I demanded my boyfriend to define the relationship after 5 months. Tara does want this guy, but she just lives in her own little shell and won’t demand what she wants. She just sits back lets things happen and says she wants him to define it in his own time (I told her drop his ass if he doesn’t define it at the end of this month).

It’s fine that Ryan took his time. He’s a guy and it’s more socially accepted for him to put off relationships and marriage. For women I don’t understand it though. I feel like when we go that route, we get used, we get our time wasted and we get hurt. I think Tara is making a huge mistake, but my boyfriend says she’s not. What if she defines the relationship and then decides she doesn’t like him after all (that’s his logic). Maybe because I’m also dying to matchmake her and there’s a friend of my bf’s who I want her to meet (because he’s dying to date her and I think they’re perfect for each other).