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This young woman and I chat on and off. She thinks I am cute - she told me. She has said she loves me and misses me but I don’t know her well. I don’t say I miss you to someone unless it’s romance but she could be different with how she used the term. We are both left handed and she said it’s fate and laughed at it when she found out but she sent a love heart Whenever I write to her she gives love hearts. She sends me photos of herself and sometimes at random. She sent me a photo with her hiding her face - she is very active on social media and never hides her face to anyone else in any pictures so I thought it was kind of different. Why do I get this picture? Why hiding her face? Of course I hope she likes me but of course I don’t know Whenever I write to her she opens it straight away and either reacts to the chats or writes back Something happened which caused me to fear losing her because I do like her so I said to her I love you because she has said it to me before. I said it because I thought yeah friends can say that to each other. She didn’t say anything. She posted a meme about dating an older guy after immediately after I said ily to her. I am like 5 years older than her. I could be overthinking because I want to know the future and of course I want her to like me but yeah what do you all think?

There is a negative stereotype that men are slower to grow up and mature when it comes to how they treat the opposite gender.

Personally I know I think and react differently towards women in general compared to how I was in my teens and early 20s. I am more careful about the comments I make, refrain better from starring too long (if she’s attractive), I communicate better if I am interested or not, I make better thought out decisions and I handle rejection better (and reject others better) compared to the younger version of myself

I also know most women hate the feeling of “being used and/or lied to for sex.” If it’s a hook up or fling I’ll be open about my true intentions even if it costs me want. Not to say I was a liar when I was younger. But years ago I would stay tight lipped if I just wanted one thing when the other girl was thinking we would get in a relationship. In retrospect I recognize that was wrong. Nowadays I don’t give false hope.

That of course doesn’t mean I’m perfect. I will continue to make mistakes. However I am more cognizant of how the other gender thinks now. I also am less likely to get caught off guard if a bad gut sense about something.

With that said I’ve have unfortunately encountered a lot of grown ass women in their 30s and even older that still show blatant immaturity. The worse example is how some of them still play dumb if a guy is interested (and woman isn’t) to exploit the friéndzone for attention and benefits.

I would think a grown woman would know better than to do that. It’s not a sex issue but a respect issue. The guy has only so much time, resources and patience to stick his neck out.

He can handle rejection but being friendzoned is extremely insulting. He will usually figure it out faster than a young man and when he does he will feel exploited.

Just meeting older woman who still believe in this crap is insane.