Why is sex so expensive for men?

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Why is it so much harder and expensive for men to get sex in society. Men need to have social status, social skills, economic status, have muscles. I have been on subreddits for meetup/hookups where it's just a bunch of guys posting in hopes to find a women (or man sometimes) for sex. Even for platonic cuddle subreddits women complain about feeling overwhelmed with messages, whereas men complain about not getting any attention. Across 4 dating apps and 2 years I have only been on one date with one woman, a 40 year old divorced woman with a teenage girl; and I (24 yr old man) needed to convince her that I wasn't too young for her (not that she wasn't too old for me).

As an experiment, I started a Grindr account and in a couple of hours I had a dozen men interested me, with only one bad photo. In a few days, I had received more interest then in years across several dating apps searching for women.

Just some statistics: 60% of young men under 30 are single. It is expected that "45% of women between the ages of 25 and 44 who will be single and childless by 2030". "1 in 3 men haven't had sex in the past year". "Men swipe right on Tinder 46% of the time, while women only swipe right 14%"

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because women don’t want men at the same rate men want women. Especially not for casual sex. Most women don’t want casual sex at all, and those who do, most of them can pick basically any type of man and they’ll go for the most attractive one to them, be it that they’re attracted to their looks, status, the guy making them laugh, whatever. But yeah, supply and demand. The demand for women willing to have sex is massive while the supply (available women wanting casual sex) is small = big competition for men. And the same sort of principle still standa for relationships. Most women would rather be single for the rest of their lives than be with a man she doesn’t really want or feel attracted to. Research show women are happier being single than men are.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Because that's what type of woman you're looking for if you weren't you would understand the only muscle you need is in your head common sense and if you're treating women like they are an object that can be bought your mistaken and that's really kind of rude really

So I would be very expensive if a gut approached me wanting sex ... the reason is girls don't want a guy like you. Not unless that's what they do for a living
And if that's what they do for a living it's could be for any reason and they probably don't really like it . But they say to themselves I hate I have to do this. And if I have to do this. I need to get paid for my services

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If men stopped simping, stopped being desperate, took physical pleasure down from the pedestal they have it up on, and developed strict boundaries and standards, those sorts of issues would go away.

Sonorous · Answer

My advice would be to stay away from dating apps unless you're Chad that isn't picky about character or unless you're ultra rich & can attract gold diggers.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Probably because girls won't give it up so, there's WAY more horny guys out there that want to buy sex toys than there are women!!

shades777 · Answer

Blame competition, some ass wipe spends $500 on a date now the woman compares all the other to prince f'ing charming.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Because we don't have pussy! Or hot asses, breasts, legs. Granted I've hardly ever paid for sex with money, but my brain sure has..

Anonymous · Answer

Because the potential result of sex is arguably more expensive to women.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol you're living in different world.. Sex is easy to get in this days...

Anonymous · Answer

I see you're one of the many guys who seem to think sex is something you're entitled to. I'd say your problems start there.

LazerBean · Answer

Because men are easier than women.

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