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Search Results: scaring a guy off
How do I get over my failed talking stage?
Basically there is this guy that I’ve met in uni a few months ago. We used to talk every day and meet up almost every day for two-three weeks, until he started becoming more distant meaning he started replying to me less...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he having me on or is he being genuine?
My ex and I have rekindled things after 2 years as we love eachother we always find our way back to eachother and he’s always been shit at communicating. So everyday we speak to each other half an hour on the phone no...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is she scared of how she feels or just not ready for a relationship?
Been seeing this girl from work (not in the same department) and things were going well, lots of talk about plans for the future and all the things we’ve got in common with good banter. We’ve slept together a few times,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Scared of getting hurt?
I’ve (25f) recently started seeing a guy (24m) and we have hit it off incredibly well. We have the same sense of humor, tons in common, and communicate very well! The only problem is that he is moving about 4 states away...
Anonymous
(25-29) RE: "Why are you pro-choice?" (The SIXTH Damn Abortion Argument I've Done on Here.)
A response to this post, since the cowardly anon erased it the first time. So now you've made me make this crap. THE QUESTION "Why are you pro-life/pro-choice?" I am very much pro choice. I've explained this before,...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 Will I scare him off?
I met a guy on a dating app and we had a casual thing. We decided to stay friends. I came across his social media and I’m really impressed at the person he is. Lovely, funny, outgoing. Will I come across as a stalker or...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do I feel so alone?
I have 2 men interested in me. Both good men, friends of mine. My stalker is backing off, I’m seeking work, losing weight and making new friends, going out more this year. My friends and family adore me. Even though I’m...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I recover?
i’ve been dating a guy on and off for quite some time now. he had a habit of ghosting and returning. the most recent time it went as long as 4 weeks. that was the 4th time. i’m aware he would only return bc i allowed it....
Anonymous
(25-29) Are some men "scared" to make a move?
Ok there is this guy that would react to my stories a lot, then he started conversations online. Nice friendly conversation, never flirty. He suggested we get a cup of coffee. In the morning not really a date. Meanwhile I...
Zavarakatranemia
Xper 3 Age: 37 Should I be his friend?
I was seeing a guy for just under a couple of months. He approached and pursued me. We hit it off. Took a weekend cabin trip with he and his friends. Had a wonderful time. He told me his friends loved me and they told me...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why were they so mad but she didn't tell them she was seeing someone?
My best friend has had the worst luck with guys and now she's finally found a really great guy and they've only just started dating. I'll be totally honest my friend is a beautiful girl inside and out but she has a...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 Why is he ignoring me on purpose?
So this guys and I have been on and off for 4 months. His pretty shy. I explained to him I want to get to know him more. He got a bit made at me saying he wants more. He then started ignoring me. Then re messaged me after...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, Can I make a man fall in love with me even when his heart is closed off because he's scared to get hurt again and he doesn't trust women?
I'm dating a man who cares about me deeply but he fights when it comes to actually falling in love because he's been hurt in a past relationship and he's scared that I'm going to leave him and hurt him like she has, how...
Anonymous
(25-29) I’m scared he’s gonna lose interest. He started off super into me and now I’m super into him but, guys lose interest when I reciprocate?
I met this guy at a school and he was super into me like complimenting me 24 responding in seconds minutes, talking for hours, asking to call, calling for hours. At first I kinda say him as a guy I was just taking to. I...
Anonymous
(18-24) How to deal with a toxic friend?
I and my now boyfriend have been talking to each other for 7 months online. We liked each other right away. It took two months for me to finally say anything of course he felt the same way and our relationship slowly...
Anonymous
(36-45) To ghost or not to ghost?(a friendly outing, not a date)?
Am I being extra? I don’t think I am. Here we go a guy plans a date at a scare park but it’s Christmas themed and has an escape room. It sounds different and fun so I agree. I should’ve just pushed for a regular escape...
Luv2BRealExotic13
Guru Age: 32 If I really want marriage and children should I heavily focus on it and pursue it or should I let go of the desire and let it happen on it's own time?
I have always wanted marriage and children. But it has not happened for me yet. Sometimes I find myself thinking about it a lot. All my friends are in relationships and have kids. Sometimes it makes me feel like I'm...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex keeps reaching out but I’m seeing someone new. What do I do?
My ex (24m) keeps reaching out to me (25f) even though we broke up in July. We still talked off and on until early November when I told him I didn’t want to communicate anymore for the sake of moving on. He accused me of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I be honest about how I TRULY feel towards him?
I’m sorry if this is a mess but I’m everywhere rn. We’re both 22. I’ve known him for 5 years total. We dated in high school and back then I had super strong feelings for him but I chalked it up to being young and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does it seem like everything is a competition with other males?
So I noticed wherever I go guys will attempt to stare me down trying to intimidate me which never works. They always look away first or I’ll establish eye contact and look away slowly NEVER dropping my head. some will...
Anonymous
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