Am I being extra? I don’t think I am. Here we go a guy plans a date at a scare park but it’s Christmas themed and has an escape room. It sounds different and fun so I agree. I should’ve just pushed for a regular escape room. Anyway I end up paying for my own tickets and adjust my thinking to this is just a friendly outing. But why was he trying to treat it like a date? As soon as I have to pay for my own things other than the gas for me to get there it is no longer a date you are one of the bros. Then because I don’t scare easily that made him feel some type of way. He interpreted it as me not having a good time. I just don’t scare easy. Then he says he took off a night of kick boxing for me. I said “and I drove 98miles backtracked 20miles to be here and I still have to drive that same 20miles back to my moms house.” So he stopped. Then we end up going to McDonalds because everything was closed other than that the MTO gas stations and this bar deli. I wanted to go to the bar deli but he says that’s expensive. I really wanted to know how expensive? Is it like 30$ plus tax expensive? As I have paid that much for a sandwich before but it didn’t look like that kind of place. He laughs it off. I google it, no lie nothing is over $12. I watched him pay 50 dollars on mostly himself at the park. This is no longer a “we” situation. He ends up taking me to McDonalds per my request. He says well since I’m being a chauffeur am I getting paid? I said sure In compliments and not giving you a hard time like I should. Thanks for your limo service would you like some nuggets? He said no. I buy my fries. I ask did he want some fries? It was still no. So then he grabs my my bag digging in my fries. He got upset because I told him “nope they’re your fries now just have em.” I don't know why I’m even asking because the more I type the more I’ve made my decision to ghost him. Hope you find entertainment in this.
To ghost or not to ghost?(a friendly outing, not a date)?
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