I met this guy at a school and he was super into me like complimenting me 24 responding in seconds minutes, talking for hours, asking to call, calling for hours. At first I kinda say him as a guy I was just taking to. I haven’t rejected his advances but I’ve been very nonchalant because whenever I show interest back guys tend to pull back and I’m overall now very good about being honest about my feelings
This guy is funny and cute and basically everything I’ve wanted and I really am interested in him but he thinks I’m not. But I’ve been trying to do more, can’t ge just get the idea or something? He’s been responding slower to texts, and sending shorter responses, and starting conversation less. This might just be because he’s been busy with the holidays and family but I can’t help but feel it’s because I’ve tried to show more interest and be available (respond quickly, talk more etc etc)
He’s not really doing all the things I liked about him before anymore, I don’t want him to get bored with me. I’m at a point where I think about him all day even if we barely talk and I just feel like an idiot. I don’t know what to do?
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Well. I think you need to make a move on him and see what he says. You don’t want to wait too long because if you’re into him you know someone else out there is as well.
If I were you. I would ask him out and tell him you’re interested
guys don't lose interest "because" you reciprocate. i think you reciprocating and they losing interest are most likely just coninciding things. because it's only as they get to know you better that they can even decide that you're not a good fit for them after all. anyway. so i think you can just reciprocate and not worry. if they're go, they're gonna go one way or another. if a guy is really into you, i think you really can't fuck it up.