Ok there is this guy that would react to my stories a lot, then he started conversations online. Nice friendly conversation, never flirty. He suggested we get a cup of coffee. In the morning not really a date.
Meanwhile I liked another guy, so I was avoiding him, but then we stopped talking with the other guy so I started entertaining the idea. Still he never flirted ofcourse, but he could be a very cool friend, we had many things in common.
I suggested one day we get a cup of coffee after work, he said he was to tired to go out but I could go to his place and I said yes.
He seemed pretty stressed, he actualy said he was stressed because he didn't want me to think that he wanted to hit on me. I said no you never showed anything like that so I felt comfortable.
We hang out, I was very friendly but not flirty at all.
When I left he hugged me closely and said "come here my beauty, to feel you a little"
After that, he never even saw my stories again! He wouldn't miss a story before.
What is his deal?
I can't say I like him, like I like the guy I mentioned in my other question. But if he could flirt and had a way maybe he could make me like him more. And I don't say that easily, usualy if there is absolutely no chance I cut off things right away.
Anyway I am mostly curious what is this kind of behavour. Is it friendly? Is it fear? Maybe he saw me in person and didn't like me? But he had seen pictures of me with absolutely no makeup making stupid faces so it's not like he saw a different face in person.
Oh and I've seen that happening before: what is that thing with men completely stopping to watch your stories after nothing happens?
Do you watch stories as a flirting move? Why do you stop after it doesn't work out? To show you are not interested? Or because you can't stand seeing her?
