I am seeing a (gemini) man and everything had been going awesome. He has been sick and he had said he was going to be on at 10am and didn't show up until 4pm.. I understand if your sick your sick. When I say show up I mean show up online. Well, we got into an argument and both of us were upset. So later on that night a mutual "online" friend had sent him a messaging saying, You better treat her right or I want to have a shot with her."
Now my boyfriend knows this guy likes me etc but neither one of us took notice because this guy is kind of a moron... I am NOT interested in him and I did not expect him to send a msg. The guy I am seeing is married and we live in other states. I had planned to move there so we can be closer as we both love each other etc etc...
This mutual friend had sent him a text on his cell. My Gemini man didn't realize that the mutual friend, we'll call him "Sam" had his cell number.
So of course "Jack" my boyfriend was ticked off and was basically trying to call it off with me. He said he couldn't take the risk of family online his list finding out etc. Well, to me there has to be something more to this because we both have been upfront about our situations etc and neither one of us are making any demands. Things have been perfect.
When my boyfriend Jack told me that Sam had sent him a message he twisted it and said that Sam had said, "you better do her right or I will do her. " which is totally different than what was said. Sam knew about us but he doesn't know details. Jack knew he knew too so I don't know what the big deal is. I know Sam sending him a message was wrong and I have removed Sam as a friend because its NOT on that he does that.. I want my boyfriend to remove him too but he is not talking to me.
After some convincing in the discussion he said for me to keep him (my bf) online etc as friends. at the moment that's are only communication source... He said that he still loves me sweetheart. that's his words but he said the only way this is going to work is if we have some time apart and let things cool down online as he has family online too and was afraid of Sam saying stuff when he's chatting to family...
It has been a week and I have heard NOTHING from him. I know he loves me and I love him but what is his problem? Is he scared? or jealous? He has never had a problem with me talking to my friends and I even told my aunt some things and he thought she was cool etc. I don't know if he's trying to make me suffer as he asked me why I was talking to Sam about "US". I told him the only thing I said was that Jack said something that ticked me off etc. Its not like he didn't know Sam knew... But he was very shaken up with Sam saying that...
I can understand being upset as I would be if a female friend of his said the same... but I wouldn't ignore him... Id think he eventually will talk or he would have deleted me already...
Any advice?
Now my boyfriend knows this guy likes me etc but neither one of us took notice because this guy is kind of a moron... I am NOT interested in him and I did not expect him to send a msg. The guy I am seeing is married and we live in other states. I had planned to move there so we can be closer as we both love each other etc etc...
This mutual friend had sent him a text on his cell. My Gemini man didn't realize that the mutual friend, we'll call him "Sam" had his cell number.
So of course "Jack" my boyfriend was ticked off and was basically trying to call it off with me. He said he couldn't take the risk of family online his list finding out etc. Well, to me there has to be something more to this because we both have been upfront about our situations etc and neither one of us are making any demands. Things have been perfect.
When my boyfriend Jack told me that Sam had sent him a message he twisted it and said that Sam had said, "you better do her right or I will do her. " which is totally different than what was said. Sam knew about us but he doesn't know details. Jack knew he knew too so I don't know what the big deal is. I know Sam sending him a message was wrong and I have removed Sam as a friend because its NOT on that he does that.. I want my boyfriend to remove him too but he is not talking to me.
After some convincing in the discussion he said for me to keep him (my bf) online etc as friends. at the moment that's are only communication source... He said that he still loves me sweetheart. that's his words but he said the only way this is going to work is if we have some time apart and let things cool down online as he has family online too and was afraid of Sam saying stuff when he's chatting to family...
It has been a week and I have heard NOTHING from him. I know he loves me and I love him but what is his problem? Is he scared? or jealous? He has never had a problem with me talking to my friends and I even told my aunt some things and he thought she was cool etc. I don't know if he's trying to make me suffer as he asked me why I was talking to Sam about "US". I told him the only thing I said was that Jack said something that ticked me off etc. Its not like he didn't know Sam knew... But he was very shaken up with Sam saying that...
I can understand being upset as I would be if a female friend of his said the same... but I wouldn't ignore him... Id think he eventually will talk or he would have deleted me already...
Any advice?
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