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@ThatDude29 Its a special kind of allure that just captivates. It's very powerful. When a women uses her femininity in the right way she has at her command literally a generation of men. And i don't mean that hyperbolically. And i'm not talking about sexual.

@backdoorman We men are irresistibly attracted to femininity, a fact that seems lost on many of today's women, who it seems have been led to believe femininity = weakness. Trust me when I say that as long as there are straight men in this world, femininity will be power, not weakness.

@hellionthesagereborn I feel like in any other era this question would have a very obvious answer. I don't need a woman to be strong because no matter how strong she will never be as strong as myself. I don't need a woman who acts like a man because I am a man. She can however offer something I can never have which is femininity. She can be nurturing in a way that I cannot provide for myself, she can instill in me a sense of purpose. Men are built to provide and protect women and family. This gives them a reason to strive and a reason to work hard because they have someone to make these sacrifices for. If she chooses the man she is saying he is important enough that she wants and that she trusts in his value enough that she thinks he will pass on the best of himself to her offspring (that's a very big deal). So yes femininity is desired, doesn't mean she can't like masculine things, but it does mean that she will have a certain outlook and a certain behavior that can only be done by women.

@Average_but_not_Joe I've known people who believe being feminine means showing off assets to get attention and girly-girl means doing makeup and going to parties. I am looking for someone that'll have my back when I need it, a partner.

Let me state first of all that personally I DO think it’s okay for guys, including those with SO’s, to like other girls’ selfies on social media. And I would also like to clarify that I’m not talking about selfies of girls that are borderline pornographic, you know the kind I’m talking about. The kind I am talking about in this post, the ones that I think are harmless, I’ve included an example of (a guy I know’s fiancée got super mad at him for liking this pic of me on Instagram, and she made him unfollow me). The meme above is something a girl I know, who is married, posted on FB, but I don’t really agree with it (the part about selfies, let’s just ignore the stuff in the middle for now). Now, this girl is VERY insecure, is overweight, and is on her second marriage because her first husband only married her to get his Canadian citizenship, and as soon as he got it he started cheating on her. Now, her case is a bit extreme in terms of her insecurity, but I’ve met quite a few women, many of whom are very attractive, who get very jealous and irate if their husband or boyfriend, who, by all appearances seem to be very devoted to them, likes selfies of other women who are attractive. Do they have a point? Is liking other girls’ social media pics, or even just looking at them in their IG stories, and indication that they are attracted to these other women and are thinking of cheating? Or is that a bit irrational? I personally think it is. I think if a woman has a big problem with her man doing that, it’s a sign that she’s either very insecure, or there may be some underlying problems in the relationship, and deep down she’s afraid that he’s attracted to other women and might want to cheat. If so, I think those issues should be addressed in the relationship, because that level of distrust and jealousy, to the point where a man can’t like another girls’ pictures, is very unhealthy. But, that’s just my opinion. What do you all think?

So I think it’s only me. But I cannot find a relationship to save my life. I’m super unlucky compared to everyone else.

Im almost 25 and never had a real relationship. I saw someone for a short amount of months and he wasn’t my type, he was probably one of the only guys that came my way. But he seemed nice and we had things in common, so I went for it. He was not physically attractive and people I knew thought I could do better, yet he seemed to get women easily.

I've been on and off dating apps for years and I just cannot find a guy. I’m told I’m attractive and always thought my weight is what kept me single. But I’m thick and lost a good 70 lbs, yet I’m still unnoticed by guys. I’ve seen big women get approached and have dates so that’s not it.

Anytime I try to meet someone from online, it never works. Lack of connection, interest isn’t mutual, things fade out, disagreements and I end talking to them etc.

I would love to meet people in person but I don’t have friends and never used to get approached anyway. Anytime that I’ve been approached, it was by a guy I did not find attractive. I’m starting to wonder if I’m not as attractive as people say I am or if I’m cursed.

Im able to graduate college, move out and find a “real job” YET can’t find a man, what gives?