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Obviously those aren't the real Trisha and Nicole, but they have similar facial features and hair textures to those women.

Trisha and I have had our ups and downs, but she's promised me that she'll never burn the bridge with me. Trisha was there for me when my aunt died, she's given me career advice, and she makes me feel good about my accomplishments. I really like her. It's gotten really hard for me to be just friends with Trisha, because I want more. She is a good friend, but I notice that she's not real touchy with me. Maybe it's because she's a real shy and reserved person. Over the 5 years I've known her, she's only hugged me once and shook my hand twice. I find that weird because when she Snapchats or texts me, she's always very flirtatious and asking for my opinion on her looks. Maybe she is just a big flirt and leading me on. But I could be wrong about this. Should I pursue Trisha?

Nicole is my other good female friend. She's down to earth, but can be aloof and elusive at times. She's practical in the sense that she doesn't try to hide things. If she has to use the bathroom, she'll be open about it. If she doesn't like something you did, she'll get in your face and assert her opinion. If there's something bad mentioned in the news, she'll be the first one to pull up an article from an unbiased resource and share the facts. But, she also has this tendency to be aloof too. She used to date my friend I met at the gym. When he got a new car, she said it's just a car and didn't give him the compliment that he was seeking. When it was my birthday, she nearly forgot and said that it's just another year. Sometimes, I catch her listening to music and I call out to her or wave at her and she won't even look my way. Nicole is very touchy. She gives me a tight hug every time she sees me. She's kissed my neck before. And we've even shared a blanket at her apartment while we were watching TV. Should I pursue Nicole?