Search Results: boyfriend with another guy

Does this sound like being taken for granted?

Would this bug you if in your relationship (early 30s) together for years and not living together currently. So my boyfriend and I dont go on dates out and spend time if I go usually make plans to come over and we will...

Yahoo13

Xper 1 Age: 34

Why am I so unfortunate when it comes to love?

(English isn't my first language please be kind, and this is more like a rant) I'm 19 never had a boyfriend, been asked out once, liked a few guys before but they all either rejected me or rejected and played me at the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I was scrolling boyfriend’s followings and saw his previous comments under a girl’s photo. But it was very long ago like in 2019. Is he player?

I started to talk to a guy. I’m from another county and he’s from another. I just watched his followings (he follows many people) and saw comments like compliments, fire emojis under girls’ photos. And this made me upset....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he choosing toxic but comfort over a deeper connection?

Me and this guy met 2 years ago. Both in toxic relationships where we werent getting our needs met. Feelings grew between us, he left his relationship thinking I would leave mine bc we were having issues. I said no I have...

roseyynh

Xper 4 Age: 28

He told me this and I feel bad, what can I do?

i really liked my guy friend , who I was very close to, but because the boy was straight, it seemed that my feelings for him were ending now. When we were talking today, he said to me that he wished you were a girl. He...

Mikekendall

Xper 1 Age: 21

Family & Friends

Why is that some women get defensive if I disagree on a wrong behavior?

I have more problems on calling out someone's BS, regardless of gender. For me, wrong is wrong. When a man acts like a total jerk, other men and women call him out on his BS. Just last week for instance, I disagreed on a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is dancing with someone else cheating?

My friend (F28) goes to a dance course (salsa) by herself because her boyfriend (M31) doesn't like dancing. There was a dance event she was invited with her dance group and she danced with a man. Her boyfriend was not...

sexyback

Editor Age: 30

Girls, How much touching is too much?

I'm 21 and in my first relationship. I didn't like myself enough and I was apprehensive of guys. I've been on 9 official dates with my boyfriend so far. He's 24, and I like that he is tall, strong, and can protect me. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it wrong to avoid relationships due to heart-break?

I won't go into full details because it's too much explaining. But he was my VERY first boyfriend that's basically been a one-sided relationship where I was investing time, feelings and love for him while it was NEVER...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 34

Why is my ex ruining my reputation?

He is putting me on blast on social media without saying my name treating me like I’m a criminal when I am not ever since the break up and this is affecting my future relationships leading to guys ghosting me and thinking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it completely Odd for another female who is currently in a relationship to allow another female to sleep with her own boyfriend?

This guy who lives with me has claimed that his own girlfriend was allowing and told me that I can have sex with her boyfriend since she can't give him the enjoyment & sex with them. Since the new girlfriend told me that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Do you tend to value men or women's opinions more? Why?

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's all ears and ready to take the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's

Anyways, it made me question whose opinions I tend to value? I am very stubborn and not many people can get through to me. I can only think of one girl who has just really gotten through to me but I guess I notice that it’s mostly been guys, thus I value men’s opinions more.

I don't know if my guy simply values the male view more because he’s so insecure and intimidated by other men, which he says all the time. But I value the guys perspective because I want to know how to captivate, communicate with, and better understand the gender that I’m attracted to.

Some may call that a “pick me” but I don’t consider it the same thing. I feel pick me’s seek validation while I more so want advice and guidance. Who better to understand a guy I’m into than a guy himself?

If I wanted advice on how to improve my appearance, dress style or to better control my emotions, then I’d seek a woman’s advice since we better understand one another’s insecurities and reactions. I rarely ask other women for advice on guys though because so many take it as competition to go after that same guy. Its so weird. Girlcode always seems to go out the window.

Another thing could be that I grew up looking up to my grandpa more than anyone else. I also got along best with my male cousin and my uncle. My friends have always been 90% guys. Like, my mom held it down for a bit but her inconsistent behavior and broken promises really got to me. So I stopped looking up to her. Maybe she, my grandma and a bunch of flaky female friends and cousins ruined it for other women too.

Some men have wronged me but never as many men as women. I guess same can be said for my boyfriend since he feels more women have wronged him yet all I ever see these days is men treating him badly. #FeelFreeToList

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Concerned about the relationship between my boyfriend and his girl work friend, should I ask him to not talk to her anymore?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months. Recently, after a two-week break up, we got back together. I noticed he was frequently discussing his female friend who helped him land a job. Though he reassured...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I wrong to feel like hooking up with someone bc my boyfriend did when we first were dating?

Together 6 mo now. When I first started talking to my boyfriend, I was finally ready for a relationship. Having been in my ho phase was really getting tired. After my first meeting with him, he asked if I wanted to be his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When You’re Doing The Most

How would YOU define or differentiate between these five words— territorial, jealous, possessive, clingy, overprotective? Would you consider some, none, or all of the above to be a toxic trait? Have you or someone you...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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I don't believe him and I kinda think he's gay?

I've been seeing this guy for a month now. (28F + 32M) I like him, and we seem super compatible so far. But there are a few things bothering me... 1. Kinda liar He's a good person, truly. He's been single for a while and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend broke up with me to focus on his business. Isn’t that counterproductive?

So last night, my boyfriend of nearly 4 years broke up with me because “our life paths are different, he wants to focus on his business and feels that I’m weighing him down.” He tried breaking up with me before in January...

Anonymous

(25-29)