Does this sound like being taken for granted?

Would this bug you if in your relationship (early 30s) together for years and not living together currently. So my boyfriend and I dont go on dates out and spend time if I go usually make plans to come over and we will watch movies and get some food and sex and some chatting. ( try to catch up 3-4 times a week depending on my work he has been unemployed for nearly 2 years now.. another issue) he doesn't seem to see the issues with not really going out much and doesn't seem to want to come to events and things with me and says he hates movies because people are there and things. Anyways since he isn't working ( has some issues but also won't seek therapy or help himself) sleeps and plays video games all day. I dont mind him spending time with friends but feel like he is seeing them 6 days a week at least for hours playing video games and when I try and make plans with him he is usually like oh I already have plans with this person but can see you before or after and feel like im not a priority. Or we will be hanging out and he will get a message from a friend to hang out and will leave me there and go play games with his friend for hours. Is like why did I bother coming? 🙄 I've tried not to nag but feels like I'm a friends with benefits sometimes or like he would rather be with his friends. Sometimes I think its just me being silly. Would you be okay with this? Like I get upset trying to plan to see him but its like every time I ask he is always busy with this one friend but he can kind of 'fit me in then' kind of thing. For the guys is this normal for being in a longer term relationship?

Does this sound like being taken for granted?
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