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Girls, I regularly notice/catch women staring at me and my face or bizarrely my crotch area. why do some smile and some go red and seem embarrassed?

I have anxiety about my looks, and then I regularly notice women are either staring at me in general and when I make direct eye contact they smile. But I'm too scared to approach them because maybe it's because they think...
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I have anxiety about my looks, and then I regularly notice women are either staring at me in general and when I make direct eye contact they smile. But I'm too scared to approach them Show More
Are my assumptions correct, and they are staring at my lower ctkch area and obviously seem embarrassed because I am so weird looking
Am I very unattractive?
Am I just unattractive?
Are they staring because of a good reason
Are they staring at my crotch or face for a bad reason?
Are they smiling and staring at my face because they don't want to seem mean and can't stop staring at a 191cm/6'3" lanky guy and I stand out because I'm strange?
I'm completely wrong and there is a completely different or innocent reason the women of all ages stare at my face and lower region... And become so embarrassed afterwards?
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How can I approach a guy?

We met on May at an event. He tried to talk to me a few times, but I sort of replied to him in a way that may looked like I was not interested (I was busy at the event). And eventually he stopped trying, and that was the...
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What should I do when the guy I'm dating gets upset easily?

At first, it was cute and initially I also have my share of faults. I disappeared when he needed emotional support cause someone died in his family and I did not say the pet name that he wants me to say for us both. I...
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Girls, can you sense guys competing for dating you?

I noticed one friend of my group likely approaching a common female friend who had quit with her boyfriend last autumn, and another guy had gone as far as talking about each other's dating intentions, as in "I'm searching...
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Other’s opinions on this?

Is it normal for a guy to hold so much of a grudge on you for removing him off instagram. What happened was, l didn’t know the guy and l removed him off my Insta. A year later he posts a photo and l was able to see it...
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Are women just polite when they compliment me?

Whenever I go to work, a lot of women will say “wow you look really pretty”. I generally don’t compliment them a lot but I usually get called beautiful and pretty by women. However men have never said that to me. Some men...
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Is there any girl who has old school thoughts and hate this so called dating culture, wish to get a soul mate and doesn't know whom to trust?

Being a 23 year old guy, seeing people around me has a companion to share their love makes me feel like 'odd one out'. While the other side I'm kinda happy I haven't struck into any toxic relationship. It's very hard to...
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Why do so many women not know how to carry themselves?

I often see so many women either "clomping" (a sort of stomping/masculine walk) or waddling (yes, like a duck) instead of walking with the grace and elegance a woman is naturally granted. Regardless of the woman's age, it...
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What's your opinion on girls who are opinionated and potty-mouthed?

A month or two ago I asked someone about what's so unattractive about me that I don't get approached? Then this person told me maybe because I'm all these and I should probably change if I want guys to approach me more....
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How do I not loose confidence when I approach online dating?

Online dating website Eharmony is making me feel depressed. I sent a message to this guy I found attractive and got left on read and guys reject me. No luck. I've taken initiative, but rejection hurts bad and triggers...
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How do I stop thinking it’s too good to be true when attractive guys are interested in me? Do attractive men ever take a single woman seriously?

I am pretty attractive I know this because I’ve been told it my whole life and a the male attention I receive. I’m confident in my looks. All the guys I’ve dated have been average, at times I’ve gone out with guys that...
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If Women don't want Men talking to them, how are we supposed to approach them?

So I’ve never been approached by a woman. The only female friends I’ve had is when I meet women through guy friends. I try dating apps but I don’t meet whatever attractiveness threshold to get likes or matches. If I want...
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I never had a girlfriend until my early 30s, is it wrong that I feel like a forever permanent incel because of that?

I will admit, i'm not proud of it, that it took me longer than the average typical person to get into their first relationship, it didn't last though, over a year though, since i was a late bloomer, i know i will forever...
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Great chemistry with guys in-person but he's not into texting?

Is it a hard sign of disinterest when a guy doesn't reply to a complimentary text (like "you're cute/fun")? Even if you get along great when you see each other? 😕😬 I don't know if it's a problem with my mindset and...
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Could it be that I'm good looking but at the same time not attractive?

I've spent years being single and alone . I've heard here and there of people complimenting me saying I'm good looking. Especially recently. But again I have never been asked out nor approached. I don't wanna hear anybody...
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I’m 29 and have wanted to be married years ago but find meeting guys too difficult. What should I do?

I strongly desire being a wife and mother. I have never been the type to go out and party or club, I dress classy and have a lot going for me. Worked as a engineer and strategist in finance. Im not loud or rude. Im SUPER...
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How can I get my first boyfriend before she 30?

I never had a first boyfriend , no one wants to meet family, go on a fun romantic vacation with me, take pics with me, call me his girlfriend. guys just talk to me but don’t give me label. Since I was 13 I approach the...
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Why do men rarely approach me? What am I doing wrong?

Basically men only stare. When i stare them back to show im interested they just look the other way or don't seem to get the hint. The few that approach me always send their friends to ask for my ig so it's not like i...
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Female choosing quandary?

As the title implies I'm in a not so fun crossroad in my life where i have to choose between 2 girls. One is absolutely drop dead gorgeous and gets attention from quite literally every guy and is head over heels for me,...
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