Search Results: love being single

"Don't date anyone until you can love yourself" Do you believe this is true?

I heard this phrase and similar statements go around a lot. I think the main idea is to learn how to handle your trauma and habits before letting any romantic connections into your life. usually people with low...

another_curious_girl

Xper 1 Age: 21

Flirting

Why would a man feel nervous around me?

I don’t do anything to invade his space, I am just there, everyday I go to the office, I catch him touching his hair or adjusting himself as soon as he sees me when I go into the office, he’s naturally the first person...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

What do men think about a young, widow single mother?

The woman is only 26, her baby daughter just turned 3 on July 15 and it hasn't been easy being a single mother. Her husband died of Acute Myloid Luekemia when their daughter was just 4 months old. She would like to find...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do men cheat on their pretty girlfriends?

When I came to Shanghai this afternoon, I made a post about it and an old acquaintance of mine, who’s a celebrity here and who I met back at my time in Beijing, he messaged me saying “I’m going to be in Shanghai soon and...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

What would be your advice to someone who doesn't believe in romance?

Marriage, Dating, the modern idea of what “Love” is suppose to be? I’ve honestly soured on a lot of this stuff. You might call me simple, you might call me sexist. But to me the most ideal relationship is a relaxed one....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why will a guy smile and stare at me for straight 10 minutes on train but act like nothing happened when I try to get closer to him?

He was a stranger. I was really flattered and loved his straightforwardness. But I was very shy so I kept looking him from time to time and always found his gaze and body language fixated towards me. He had that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What to do if a man ghosts you for his mental health?

I have been ghosted 3 times and every single time they ended up coming back saying that the reason was because of their mental health. Each time I felt like it was just an excuse because my mental health had suffered a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What can I do when the choices are give up on love or lower my standards?

I'm 27 female, I've been abused in nearly every relationship I've ever had. My last one ended in 2019 after I'd been raped by my ex and since then I've been single. I had a situationship or friends with benefits type...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I cope with being an absolute failure at life?

I am 28 years old, short, fat, unemployed, disabled, still live with my mom, and I never had a real girlfriend. I seek the impossible when it comes to women. I seek a woman that has never had her first love and the same...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I find a boyfriend without being exploited and taken advantage of?

I used to pride myself in being humble and having realistic standards. I didn't care about the guy's income, his education didn't matter, I didn't care about the guy's job history, height, I was simply happy a guy was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How likely is it that word spread to these guys I used to be friend with?

I told a guy who’s a mutual friend in confidence that I’m happy being single and I only went on other dates to get over being in love with his mate, one of the guys I used to be friends with. Mutual friend guy mentioned...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Being a DA female

I'm a DA female. I just want to rant about being so misunderstood..my whole teenage years I was called a bitch and cold. A prude because I never dated and it used to hurt me a lot though I pretended that it doesn't. I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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What would you ladies think about a guy like me? Am I a red flag?

I’m single by choice. And I’m 28. I got offered to do modeling, so I have the looks, but it might be a long time before I settle down and find a girl I actually want to be in a relationship with. I’m not gonna lie, but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How not to be the problem?

Hi, I am 27, I recently a couple months ago started dating this guy (26) who is super sweet. Like there is potential in this going somewhere. We have a lot in common and have similar goals. We get along fantastically. BUT...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m 34. Is it time to get rid of these beautiful formal dresses and shoes in my closet, so someone else that will use them can use them?

I’m starting to think I’ll never get married. I’m 34 and I’ve been in love four times, half of whom I never dated. Three had Asperger’s that was more severe than mine, which stopped us from dating. One only was seeking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it time to cut off this friend or am I being to sensitive?

About a year ago, I moved to a new city and befriended this guy named Joseph. Ever since I met him, he’s been trying to get me to date every single and available woman in his church. Even when I don’t want to pursue...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why does my friend who calls me her “sister” told me I’ll never find a good guy?

I’ve been single for years because I focused on work and studies. I was with her through thick and thin and now she’s finally getting married to her high school sweetheart. I genuinely prayed for them to last together...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How do you prepare for jealousy and combat it?

unlike a lot of women I know my mom didn’t care much for looks. She never tried to force any of her daughters to fit into the beauty standard and always made me and my siblings feel that personality was far more...

Anonymous

(25-29)