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Has low self-confidence ever kept you from love, success or sharing your talents?
Around 10 years ago, I found a guy on Facebook I really liked, I thought he was a 10 out of 10, but I decided he would not be interested in somebody basic and plain like me and did not bother to message him or add him as...
Why did this guy suddenly stop greeting me and making eye contact?
For context, we're both in the same. College class and we've been in the same college class since 1st year. He used to greet me all the time when we crossed paths, soemtiems with a hey and other times with a smile. I'm...
Prairie_Flow3r
Xper 4 Age: 24 How do I stop wanting romantic validation and accept being single?
So, as the title says, I am a girl who clearly struggles to date. I am 20 and I have never been asked out, almost never experienced catcalling, my dms are also basically dry and non existent. Its obvious that I am no guys...
Anonymous
(18-24) Was he just after sex?
Hi all. I was seeing a guy for a month, met up 9–10 times, mostly at his place, outside or drove in his car. His ex cheated on him but he forgave her, then they broke up. He plays the guitar, I sing & we planned to...
Anonymous
(18-24) What does this guy mean when he tells my good friend "Wow, you've got your very own little cheerleader, here, don't you?"?
I was patching up my relationship with a guy, who I'd stepped away from bc he was emotionally immature and playing games. He tried to work his way back into my life, promising he'd be serious, etc. I gave him the benefit...
Is my gym crush potentially interested in me back, or is it one sided and just in my head?
Straight to the point, I’m very attracted to a guy in the gym. We’ve never spoken and while I can’t say I have a huge crush on him because I don't know him, but I’m trying to interpret if he feels the attraction the same...
electraspamacc
Xper 1 Age: 27 Is it disrespectful to your partner to compliment other people’s looks?
Some people think complimenting someone else’s looks is harmless… others think it’s disrespectful when you’re in a relationship. I think it depends on the context. Saying someone looks nice is different from constantly...
7Phoenix7
Guru Age: 35 
How often do people compliment you?
Yesterday something kind of funny happened. A guy came into the store with a skateboard.. tall, dirty blond hair in a bun, really striking brown eyes. When he got closer I asked him if he had ever done modeling, because...
7Phoenix7
Guru Age: 35 Reaching out after cutting him off?
I cut my guy off a few days ago because I was in my feelings about something and sent him a long paragraph saying I didn’t want to talk anymore. But he’s the only person I’ve been sleeping with. And I really want to see...
Anonymous
(25-29) How often do you hype your man up just to be supportive?
Someone asked about jealousy and it made me think of how sometimes two guys want the same girl but the second guy doesn't realize the first one kinda already has her locked in when she's praising him and when you try to...
What are the best/worst apologies you've given/recieved?
I didn't think much of it actually at first but then I met my alter ego 👺in a dream last night and he was like "you're an asssshhhooollleeeee" would you believe he arrested me? I had to go through the whole thing...
To be or not be …breadcrumbed?
I was seeing a guy for a little while. In the beginning things felt mutual and normal. I asked him what he was looking for, but instead of giving me a clear answer he talked around it and encouraged me to say what I...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is white privilege?
I keep hearing that I have some kinfld of white privilege but I have yet to find out what it is because if I have it well shit I wanna use it ya know... I've asked the folks that say it but they domt really seem to know...
FreakInTheBedroom
Xper 4 Age: 43 Why do coworkers seem bothered when I say I don’t want to move up?
Whenever I get around to seeing a few people at work which I don't get to see every day. Some not all ask me if I am going to move up. I told one guy no today and he looked a little bothered. This isn't the first time I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do male coworkers only flirt with me right before they quit?
I've been at my job for six years and there's always some guys who been there either a year, two years, months or whatever. Whenever some of these guys are about to quit their first thing to do is try to flirt with me...
Anonymous
(18-24) Need brutal honesty on this gym crush situation because my brain is spiraling?
A few years ago I matched this guy on Bumble, but I killed it by constantly talking about how his friend rejected me (awkward af). We unmatched and never spoke again. Now, whenever I go to the gym he usually trains at...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why are some women attracted to wealthy men and seen as gold diggers?
Two of my girl friends started acting like they were sucking up to one of my guy friends when first introduced to him, because he has an elite look about him (you can tell by looking at him and how he dresses and speaks...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 How do I handle this?
My boyfriend and I just got back together in October after 3 months apart and I've literally done everything a good girlfriend is supposed to do. I cook , clean, make his favorite meals and check up on him and do things...
Anonymous
(30-35) I accidentally called my old situationship after a year—does he miss me too?
It’s been about a year since I called things off with my situationship. He use to come into my work and long story short he was married and I had a partner. Anyway for a month we started secretly meeting up in the...
Winstah26
Xper 3 Age: 29 Why is this guy suddenly acting caring and curious about me now?
I had known this guy for about three years, but the way he first approached me was already strange. When he said hi, he was being a little flirty, and his friends two females and one male were standing there watching the...
Anonymous
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