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You think the Starbucks customer who claims barista wrote Illegal on her cup is lying?
I get that Jussie Smollet vibe from this, like did she also tell her that this Starbucks was MAGA country too? Anytime I've ever been in Starbucks the batista were generally blue or purple haired with body art and...
Gwendoline
Guru Age: 19 Why can't some Christians live comfortable lives?
Someone with social anxiety purposely put in situations where they always have to be around people. Even if the victim has been bullied somehow they attract negative attention whoever they go. Losing a car so they have to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Getting Tons of Attention on app – Real Interest or Red Flags?
Hi everyone! I'm a local Thailand woman and had an experience that honestly left me a little stunned, and I wanted to get some perspectives from people who might know more. I’m a pretty average-looking straight woman —...
judysan
Xper 1 Age: 31 Do men like "high maintenance" girls more?
Sometimes I feel like unsatisfied girls get more than moderate understanding girls. The ones who always ask for more and more seem to get more attention and love than the ones who don't expect anything but love and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do guys always want to hug and stand too close even though we've just met?
Since back in college no matter what the circumstances guys have always found a way to get into my personal space and flirt playfully with me, which includes trying to hug/cuddle lightly or finding an excuse to whisper...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) He doesn’t want a relationship with me, but is desperate to be friends?
He chased down and asked me out multiple times despite rejecting him twice. I gave him a chance and he told me that we weren’t compatible for a relationship because I’m not confident enough for him. I end things and he...
Anonymous
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Anonymous
(25-29) Why do boys try to get the attention of the girl they care about a lot by making her jealous of the ones whose presence doesn’t really matter?
For example, if he really liked that girl, he would be busy loving her instead of trying to get the more important girl to pay attention to him. Do they really think it makes them more attractive? It is a lot better to...
Babygirl_S
Guru Age: 29 How can I get him to pursue me?
I met a guy at a work conference. We hit it off as friends straight away and have been talking for around a month via text. I told him a few weeks later that I fancied him and I had been thinking about him a lot. He...
Anonymous
(30-35) Ready for the 4th of July fireworks?
Times have changed in what they sell. Now these are the type of fireworks we have today. The poop one blows up and splatters you with poop. And the gender reveal gives a blue or pink shower of sparks. Or multiple colors...
NoDecision
Yoda Age: 27 What would you do when your friend is being stupid (unsafe/unreasonable)?
Was out with a friend and a guy approaches, paying (basic, respectful) attention to me. The 3 of us chat. I'm careful not to shut my friend out by paying the guy too much attention. I especially make sure the guy keeps...
Why doesn’t my friends with benefits want to be seen in public with me?
He never wants to go out and when I see him in public, he acts like he doesn’t know me. Yet, when I end things, he does everything in his power to get my attention and start things up again (calling using different...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does my former friends with benefits insist on remaining friends?
Long Story, Short: We were FWBs for three months. I caught feelings, he did not reciprocate those feelings. I cut him off for my mental health and so that I can move on. Although, he is currently dating someone and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did you know about the angel shot code in bars?
So some bartenders or employees that are properly trained will know and an angel shot is code for moments where you are in danger or concerned for your safety when drinking at bars, where it let's them know they need to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my male best friend obsessed with me?
This is something I really didn't want to come to terms with but I'm starting to think my guy best friend is obsessed with me. I've known him for 4 years and to behind with we weren't that close and were just mutuals in...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does Social Media Bring The Worst Of Us?
People seem to say the worst things possible to get attention. Generally, the dumbest and the shallow rule the algorithm. You can't have more than five hundred followers on instagram without making suggestive content....
fonduegirl
Guru Age: 25 Do White guys even actually like Latinas?
I always heard the myth that many White guys love Latinas, and that some of them even want a Latina girlfriend or wife, but I've never really seen it. I've gotten hit on by all kinds of different men; Latinos, Black, Arab...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was She Into Me, or am I just Dreaming?
Met a gorgeous girl at a party recently (the kind everyone notices). Smart, fun, magnetic. As for myself, I'm pretty average-looking, shorter, probably older, and yep - she has a boyfriend (also average-looking), who was...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think prominent brow ridges on females are unattractive?
I have deep set kind of small eyes, and a prominent brow ridge for a female. My sister has more rounder face, and flat forehead/brow bone and doesn’t have deep set eyes. She’s always gotten more attention from men/boys....
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is this site so dead?
The other day I posted a question and it only got two answers, the sexuality section is the only section that gets any attention.
Anonymous
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