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Are you intimidated by a strong sexy woman? Are you capable of appreciating the levels she’d go to to achieve success and happiness for herself and those she chooses to love? Or do you prefer a more submissive and “go-with-the-flow” type of woman?

I feel there so much that men and some women don’t understand about strong minded women. Yes, we’re a bit outspoken at times and sometimes we forget to take turns. However, being open-minded and self-reflective means consideration will be giving to all points brought to our attention. Strong, secure women are always evolving and aim to be their best. Sure, we can be a lot to handle at times but you’ll rarely ever be bored!!

If you’re with a strong-willed woman then understand that didn’t happen by chance. Of all the potential people she could have been with she chose you. Yes, you chose her too but what I mean is always keep in mind that her choice to be with YOU means she values you and sees great potential in you!!

Also, keep in mind that strong women don’t always need to be in control. It’s quite the opposite. She’ll find some much needed relief in a partner whom she can fully trust enough to finally release all control (sometimes). Not just in the bedroom, but that too!!! 💗 Women who are dominant in their daily lives don’t ALWAYS want to be between the sheets!

A few years ago, a high school friend created a dating profile for me on a website since she wanted to see me with a boyfriend (i know, weird). Anyway, I used the profile and started chatting it up with a few men, some I even know today. One guy, in particular, liked me a lot, even though I wasn't too keen on him at first. I entertained him since I was bored, but I eventually developed feelings for him. I did break it off with him because he lived 3 hours away from me, gave off very aggressive vibes, and I started to like someone closer by. Over time, he was on my mind, and we did text each other occasionally, but it was very short convos. He even wrote many poems about how heartbroken he was that I ended that online long-distance thing with him too.

Fast forward to recently, he told me he was joining the military and wanted to pursue me again. I was interested and was thinking about him frequently while he was at boot camp. Right after he came back, we texted like usual, and everything was fine until he wanted to make a last-minute trip to see me before leaving the country. I had to decline and that changed the dynamic of the relationship a little bit. A few weeks later, he informed me that he had gotten a girl pregnant. I immediately cut contact with him since he betrayed me somewhat. Now, he's texting me frequently and calling, claiming that he loves me still and cannot die without giving "us" a chance. He knew what he did was wrong and apologized for his mistakes to the point he doesn't think about anything sexual anymore as often as he once did. Do you think it is worth it to pursue a relationship with him with all of this information or should i let him be? I don't want to waste time in a toxic relationship.

This is just a general question. Most of the times, people dump them and never speak to them again.

However, lets say someone decides to take another route: the one about forgiving and giving them a 2nd chance. Is that even possible? To still forgive those two and have them back in your life? Can a person (man or woman) be capable of forgiving that?