My biggest problem is whenever I see a guy I like talking to another girl whether he met her before or after me I immediately assume he likes her and give up. It messed up my chances all the time because even if I kinda almost get a guy to like me I’ll back up because I’ll see with with another girl and then he’ll end up with her. I hate the idea of competing for a guy it makes me feel like I’m giving him too much power specially considering I have to show interest in him to win I can’t stomach the idea of throwing myself at a guy who might now even choose me. Problem is like I said it messes up my chances because 90% of good guys have one other girl that likes them so how do I stop giving up before I’m even in the race?
How to stop giving up as soon as another girl shows interest in a guy I like?
