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I’ve been A and somewhat B. There was a time in my 20s I got a lot of attention. Lots of women told me I was cute and handsome back then. I could approach any woman and literally say anything and get away with it. I was never aggressive dbag but i could flat out make sexual jokes/remarks back then and at worst a girl would laugh out of amusement (even if she wasn’t interested).

The only time I ever really got turned down back the is if the girl was already taken. But even taken girls would often chat with me and sometimes give out there number (but they wouldn’t respond to texts/calls). I would only find out later they had bfs.

However I did have a few bad experiences. I had two girls actively stalking me in college. I’ve had random drunk women grope me in clubs/bars. I’ve had one woman get angry and trying to shove me when I turned her down. I’ve had other guys try to throw me under the bus out of jealousy. But those incidents were few and far between.

Now I’ve gotten older I’m not the baby faced 24 year old I once was. I am still in excellent physical shape but I‘m not going to go walking around shirtless (unless it’s at the beach or something).

Overall it’s been a lot tougher approaching women. Although I have gotten more aware of their body language and I’ve gotten better at my game it’s insanely tough now. I have very little wiggle room to make any mistakes. If i say or do anything even remotely considered “creepy” it’s game over. It doesn’t matter if it was unintentional or not. Nor does it matter if the girl even knows it was unintentional. I’m being held to a much higher standard.

But I am curious what women honestly have to say about this. I was surprised that some prefer B. I sure as hell don’t.

You have a great first 4 dates with a guy. After 2 or 3 dates you notice he becomes less of a priority for you (you start flaking, being late etc) and after 4 dates, you tell him you really enjoy his company but think more as friends. He then says he’d find it difficult to be friends as he finds you attractive so you say it’s probably best not to meet. After a few months, he messages you about meeting up again and you agree. You have a great time again. 3 days later he sends a message saying It was nice to see you again and that we should do something after you get back from holiday.

I'm going to visit my girlfriend for a couple of weeks for the first time as we're 1,000 miles apart but in the same country. It's due to her mom being crazy and my girlfriend takes care of everyone there. She's never kissed anyone before (we're both 22 years old, so don't come at me with "you're creepy"), I've kissed one person many times a few years ago but haven't since.

I've taken much better care of my teeth lately but I do wonder if it's possible that my breath can be so fresh that it's off putting because I have been told that wearing too much cologne and over applying it is not a good thing at all.

Like if I'd just brushed my teeth and everything 15 minutes or so before kissing, would the very fresh breath of the person be off putting to you?

Not in a creepy way of course.. But in a attractive way to say, "She, Is, Amazing 😍," or "Wow, you look beautiful the way..."