Search Results: do guys back off

If you told a guy you like him, why would he not say anything but continue to flirt with you?

Really confused, I told a guy I liked him (ok by text not ideal) and for ages he seemed to back off and this past week he’s been really flirty with me.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Does this mean anything?

If you have read my previous posts, I have spoken about this guy Sam and how I think he's been giving me mixed signals. Today he had mentioned how he has a motorcycle and that he rode it to college. My 2 friends, Kaylee...

Bunny_lz

Xper 1 Age: 18

Girl's Behavior

My partner got drunk, and someone gave them hickeys on their neck, how do I get over it without getting extremely pissed, and/or build trust again?

She went to a party with a friend, she pinkie promised that she wouldn't drink or lie to me, and shw swore on her grandfathers ashes she wouldn't drink and drive, she texts me drunk so I call her, pissed, she says she was...

KarmaVibes23

Xper 1 Age: 19

Guy's Behavior

Is it safe to send him a friend request?

There’s this guy who’s been showing signs of interest when I see him a few times a month at social events. I noticed last night that he seemed to have backed off considerably. He didn’t speak to me and didn’t seem to be...

SmileyLady

Xper 5 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

Why does he ghost me than randomly talk to me again?

So this guy well call him red for this well talk for weeks on end and on call once he was talking about how he is in a relationship and than asked me how I am after I explained how I am in a Rs he said that he likes those...

ConfusedPatient

Xper 1 Age: 20

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy that rejected me in the past be concerned about me years later?

A few years ago, I went on vacation with my family to Mexico. At the resort, I befriended "Jack", and he and I just clicked. Over the course of a few days, we befriended other teens at the resort. One of these teens told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Travel

Dizzy Adventures in Vegas

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DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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Relationships

Guys, what am I dealing with? What could this guy want?

I am getting mixed signals from my guy best friend for the last year. We have never had sex but sleep next to each other several days a week. When he is having a bad day or upset or emotional, he comes to me, even if in a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, I’m a bit confused. Is he is interested or have I knocked his confidence in shock. Should I give him my number if I see him again?

I (44f) had some work done in my house recently and the workman were great, I chatted with them about interests etc. They were very polite and set everything up. Just as they were finishing the older one said you’re...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why did she friendzone me?

I’m really confused. I met this girl off a dating app and we’ve been talking for a few weeks. I’ve taken her out a few times and everything has been going great. We’ve made out a handful of times. Well I took her out...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Update I cheated on my partner of 8 years w a guy who I occasionally see at work - what do I do now?

So I cheated on my partner. He was away for work for 4 weeks. Before he left we had been fighting for months and I pleaded w him not to go. He earns a lot of money so I thought he could find something else for 4 weeks but...

Winstah26

Xper 3 Age: 29

Dating

Why am I crying and grieving so hard about my guy friend moving on?

I guess everybody tried to warn me about the rotten ex boys friends I’ve had and I was told it’s because I’m avoiding a real, true, loving relationship. My best friend said my guy friend (let’s call him Eddy) as what...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What is the logic behind really strange dating behaviour from men recently?

I’m newly single and trying to navigate dating again, but I seriously don’t get what’s changed. It feels like everyone’s playing a game instead of just enjoying the moment. Guy #1: Met this guy a month before leaving the...

victoriaxoxo

Xper 7 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Why men pull away after getting close?

Why do men pull away? What is going on through your minds when you pull away from someone you like? I recently rekindled with an old crush. We both liked each other years ago but never got the timing right. He recently...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

This is getting freaking weird?

Hi. So for a back story I was talking to this guy months ago for about three months. I realize we weren’t sexually compatible nor were we compatible in general. I was planning to end it with this person over text....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Why is a guy that rejected me as a teen still concerned about my mental health even though we barely knew each other?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why the Sudden Boyfriend?

The girl and I had been hitting it off lately, with daily WhatsApp video calls, in person we'd look each other in the eyes. At some point, she was practically throwing herself at me. All of a sudden, she claimed to have a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How do I cheer my friend up?

My best guy friend is feeling sad and he’s sulking, because when we went to a Valentine’s Day dance together, despite his best efforts, no one was interested in dating him and no one approached him, except his friends, to...

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Dating

What was it on the first date that made you not want a second?

Also, for those who dismissed certain red flags and went on second/third dates anyway, what was it that in hindsight, you wish you would’ve ended things sooner For example, the reason i didn’t go on a second date was...

DreamCrescent

Xper 7 Age: 39

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Guys that ❤️ your convo thread?

There’s this guy I met 3 mths ago who has liked my ig stories and we’ve talked here and there. He asked me to hang out a month ago but I said “soon”. He kind of fell off for a few weeks. He recently started liking...

Anonymous

(36-45)