Hi. So for a back story I was talking to this guy months ago for about three months. I realize we weren’t sexually compatible nor were we compatible in general. I was planning to end it with this person over text. However, we had a phone call where they became slightly aggressive, pushy and pushing boundaries yet again, so I hung up the phone and I had blocked them. A few weeks later, I was on a dating app and I, the idiot that i am, didn’t realize it was his profile I had swiped on because he had changed his photos. he demanded an answer as to why I blocked him, was not satisfied with my explanation and I deleted the account immediately out of fear. Later on, we came in contact again on a different dating app. He called me later on that day for a conversation that I felt could’ve been handled appropriately, and became very aggressive, demanding why I blocked him, despite the fact that I had been calmly explaining it to him several times. He asked me where I live to which I replied with a completely different town and which he replied back “ I’m not gonna come to your house or anything just wondering.” I can’t remember much else at the conversation, but I do remember him becoming increasingly angry at one point, I was tired of him, gaslighting me so I had cut him off and he demanded me to stop, to “cut that disrespect and bullshit out, i’m not gonna tolerate that disrespect do you understand?” and then later began making insane accusations about the situation. I had blocked him again shortly after that. I was on Tinder earlier tonight and I saw that he had once again swiped on me. This is getting a little weird and I don’t really know what to do.
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Woah, this dude is seriously crossing some major lines here. The way he's been relentlessly contacting you and getting aggressive is straight-up harassment. That's not okay at all.
The fact that he's tracked you down across multiple dating apps and is now demanding answers and getting angry is really sketchy and concerning behavior. It's a huge red flag, and you have every right to be freaked out.
My advice? You need to stop engaging with this guy completely. Block him everywhere you can, and don't respond to any of his calls or messages, no matter how much he tries to provoke you. His behavior is unacceptable, and you don't owe him anything.
If he continues to stalk you or make threats, you may even need to consider involving the authorities. Your safety and well-being need to be the top priority here. Don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or support services if you're feeling scared or unsafe.
This guy is clearly unstable and unwilling to respect your boundaries. You've done nothing wrong - he's the one behaving in a completely messed up way. Stand your ground, girl. You deserve so much better than this. Stay strong and keep yourself safe.
Get a guy friend to catfish him for a while and then say he was a guy all along