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So I told a 15 year old who is like a little sister to me that I would pay her bond
.. when I was at work she pissed me off.. here


here a little back story : she is a spoil brat and if she doesn't get her way she cusses u out and always wants money and she thinks I am an ATM

Well that day u know I was working and she kept blowing up my phone non damn stop saying hey sis hey sis

So In my mind everytime she says hey sis I think ok is she ok

Nah she is always asking me for money and when I told her that her mom told her to stop blowing up my phone and stop asking me for money she got all hostile with me and wanna be a damn ass spoil ass child.

She acts like she is a grown adult


This child blows up my phone literally every damn week for money especially when I am at work like that is not ok

Her mom is a single mom so I offered to help her. But eversice she literally step over that line it not been ok

This child has no discipline or anything acting like she is an adult.



So with all of that said should I still pay for her bond or no?

29F & I’ve known a few people throughout my life that just hate doing things alone. Whether it’d be those people that jump from one relationship to the next or those people that just need some kind of company when it comes to doing everyday things (getting lunch, going shopping etc). I’m not sure if I just feel this frustration for those kinds of people because I wonder how they’re capable of just jumping into new relationships so easily, some kind of jealousy? At the same time, I wouldn’t feel happy with myself if I just disliked my own company that much & constantly needed someone there to fill that void, whether it’s romantic or platonic company. I’m very much a loner & have been single for pretty much my whole life, I feel like I’m at the point where I’m so used to it that a man will REALLY need to knock off my socks in order for me to consider dating him. In other words, I’ve done everything on my own including living alone etc, will adding a man to my life be that beneficial? This isn’t meant to sound feminist, I feel like I also question these kinds of codependent people because my mom may be one of them, yes she’s independent but even she’s admitted that she hates doing things alone. Thoughts? And when I say they’re *weak*, I’m talking specifically about this aspect of their life & not overall.