What is with victim stay at home moms?

[Anonymous]

I’m not saying stay at home moms don’t work hard. I’ve met good women who stay home and don’t act like this. But they make their husband help them around the house and with childcare. I don’t mean bonding with the kids. Obviously both parents should be doing this. Bur bonding.

The stay at home mom. She acts like when her husband comes home from work, or even deployment or working overseas. It’s HER break…. Really?

I don’t think stay at home moms know how hard their husbands work. When they’re at work working their ass off. Coming how to build the fence, fix up the house, cook her dinner, and she’s too lazy to even open a door or pull a chair out for herself.

She is mad. Because her husband didn’t make birthday plans. When he works all the time. She can’t even plan things out? She can’t make a clanader or a schedule?

WhT does the husband get out of this.

Most moms work all day AND take care od their kids. Or single moms. But stay at home moms are the biggest victims I’ve ever seen

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2 mo

Hey anonymous COWARD. Thanks for blocking me and removing my posts. But I won’t remove yours. I called you out. Because you accuse me of doing the same thing you’re doing. And you’re so weak minded you can’t stand on it or just move on with your life. You run to the mods to try to get this taken down. You accuse me of being a coward and keyboard warrior. Yet you do the same thing

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2 mo

All you people probably know I’m right which is why you act like this. Anyone says something you don’t wanna hear shut them down

[petitedollbabee]

You’re right.. how dare a woman have to deal with children all day everyday, tend to taking care of the house like a full time cleaner and cook, and THEN expect her husband to act like a loving partner? Surely she’s asking for too much! She should be mothering her husband too instead of expecting him to act like an equal in the relationship.

[Asker]

A loving partner is one thing. But you seem like you have a victim mentality too. Most women don’t get the privilege of staying home all day while her husband works

[Asker]

She BETTER be working hard.

[Asker]

Being a loving husband. Isn’t coming home after a long days of work. To find his woman laying around doing nothing wanting help around the house, changing diapers, or building a new fence she wants.

He deserves a break as much as she does.

[Asker]

But a lot of you type of women. Don’t wanna do all the work. You wanna cry and say how hard you have it. Try working a job AND taking care of the kids.

Sure most stay at home moms work hard. Just as hard as hee husband is. Each working JUST as hard in different roles. Neither playing the victim.

[Asker]

If a relationship is EQUAL both people should be working hard. Not just one person. Just like if a man is making his wife do all the housework and they both work. That’s wrong.

I don’t think you appreciate your husband. Working to provide a life for you. While you wanna pretend to be a victim. Because you’re working as hard as he does in another role?

You don’t deserve love. And many who is capable of love. Wanfs it both ways or he will find a woman who can love him. Not plop out babies and BITCH

[Asker]

I don’t understand how you could be a loving partner. If you don’t treat your husband equally. If you think she should be putting all the effort in and not getting anything in return.

Can’t even have a clean house without him helping or you bitching about it. While he works and you don’t. Sure. You’re working. Taking care of the kids. Cleaning the house. Don’t be a bum. It’s either this or go join the workforce yourself.

If you would rather go to work during the day. Then go to work. But you won’t. You don’t seem to understand it’s a PRIVILEGE to be a stay at home mom. I feel bad for your husband who doesn’t get equal effort.

Just a bitching nagging wife who probably chests

[petitedollbabee]

You’ve got a lot of issues that you seem to be projecting.. I’d suggest therapy, friend. Best of luck.

[Asker]

Don’t quit your day job as a mom. Because you wouldn’t make a good mental health therapist.

It’s funny instead of talking about how much you love your husband and all you do for him. You deflect onto attacking me. Sad. It seems you’re the one projecting

[Asker]

You people alwyas talk about. Well my husband loves me or if my husband loves me. But you never talk about how you love your husband.

It must suck to come home from work. To a dirty house. To kids running around screaming. Watching your wife nag at you as she watches TV while her boyfriend sneaks out the back door. Getting slowly more fat and ugly as the days go by

[Asker]

I’ve seen a lot of stay at home moms. Some are good. But a LOT are worthless. Worthless as tits on a boar.

[Asker]

m.youtube.com/watch

Watch this. I’ve maybe talked to divorce lawyers. Mental health professionals and relationship professionals. Who said to avoid stay at home moms.

Some are good. But then there is women like
You. You definitely seem the type I’ve been told about.

People in the military. Men who have been married to stay at home moms. Just avoid them like the plague

[Asker]

Keep crying to the mods.

[HelpfulWoman]

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[WhiteSteve]

No disrespect, moms, just jokes😅😅😅😂😂😂…

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Hitc8haEu_g

[Asker]

No I get it. A lot of women life playing the victim. Not all of them. But most the stay at home moms I’ve never known have been worthless witj the exception of a few. A lot of them are old now anyways

[WhiteSteve]

Haha, nah, man, I ain’t on all that. My mom was a stay-at-home, gave up her career to be my mom. I respect that all day🫡

[Asker]

Absolutely! There is a lot of amazing stay at home moms. But I’m sure your mother would know some of them are terrible.

[Asker]

She probably loved you and your father. Took care of you. Cooked. Cleaned and didn’t BITCH about it. All the time

[Anonymous]

Says the single guy who stays at home and trolls anonymously on his keyboard...