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Search Results: thoughts on first date
Am I overthinking it or was he really avoiding the question, if so why?
Had an amazing first date last night.., he said so many great things about me and we were together from 7pm to midnight… we hold hands… sweet kiss.. made out… first base 😂 so idk… I didn’t hear from him today, so I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is he playing me? What's going on with him?
So there's this guy with whom I had been talking the past three months. We met at work and while I immediately took an instant dislike of him, he managed to weasel his way in my good graces! At first we were talking only...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you get over a long term partner? And has anyone ever done anything like this to you?
How can you get over a ex who hurt you and had this happen to you? Ex girlfriend tried forcing me to marry her which said if I refuse she would ask out her friend. I was shock and kept asking if we could talk about it...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why's she saying this?
My coworker (29f) and I (25m) have been going out for the past few months. We'd been coworkers for 2 months when I thought I might ask her out. During our first date I asked her if she'd consider me for marriage and if...
Anonymous
(30-35) I cheated on my long term long distance boyfriend. How to get over it?
I'm 22 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years. I really love him and I think he is a perfect person. We are both each other's first love and first relationship, apart from that I have never...
Anonymous
(25-29) [PART 1] Why do I still want to talk to him?
I (26f) have a friend (25m) who I met on a Facebook in 2016. We talked a lot and I felt like we were really good friends. He's 3 hours away. We have never seen each other face to face, only talked on discord. When I met...
adawong416
Xper 2 Age: 29 [PART 1] We haven't talked in 1 1/2 and I want to talk to him but everytime we stopped talking it was me the one to initiate the conversations?
So I have a friend who I met on a Facebook group in 2016 (I was 19, he was 18). We talked a lot and I felt like we were really good friends. We're both from Córdoba, Argentina but he lives in a town that's 3 hours away on...
cindyortega416
Xper 2 Age: 29 Rather shy & unexperienced guy, what am I supposed to do?
Hey. I met this guy at university some time ago and can't just forget about him. At first I thought he didn't like me that much, but somehow we sit together during almost every lecture. Even when there's seats available,...
joline1997
Xper 2 Age: 29 He asked me to pay for our next date. What should I do?
I’ve dated this Dutch man 2 times. The first two times we went to a bar and played pool ( and drinks), and I appreciated he offered to pay. What kind of annoys me is he never really planned a date for us. He always...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guy I’m seeing regularly hangs out with his ex and has been with her the past week and not responding to me. Should I be worried?
So I’ve recently started seeing a guy who told me he’s friends with his ex’s. At first I didn’t think much of it, I’m not usually the jealous type and thought it was nice to know his relationships had ended nicely and...
Regina_George
Xper 4 Age: 28 Girls, how can I improve my romantic connection I feel it’s something within myself?
PUTTING THIS HERE FIRST: I had one really messed up relationship with a girl who had borderline personality disorder I was 15, she was 18. She was an emotional roller coaster. One minute she loved me the next she hated...
Justaguy222
Xper 2 Age: 28 How long did you date your significant other before becoming exclusive?
I dated my boyfriend for 8 months before we became exclusive. Been together now for 2 years. At first he didn’t want a relationship. I could tell he did but thought every relationship failed because he wasn’t good enough.
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I asking too much/how should I ask?
I guess I have a 2 part question here. And to preface, as always, I do see a therapist, I just like this as another outlet for myself to process my thoughts. So, about a year from now, my boyfriend of 6 months will be...
Anonymous
(30-35) She said she forgave?
So I got into a fught with this girl I've been talking too I few months I'm very fond of her and she's sweet and she motivates me a lot but I'm not really in a good mental space for a relationship and I need to work on...
Anonymous
(36-45) Did I screw up or do I still have a chance?
I met a girl online over the weekend. I asked her out almost immediately. We met up at one of my favorite bar/restuarants. She was smiling and very friendly from the beginning. She was kinda flirty. She ordered the same...
VH5150
Xper 2 Age: 38 Limbo period after first date?
I met a girl on Hinge last week. I was pretty direct with her and asked her out for the get go. We went out last night and I arrived 30 mins early to ensure I could grab a table. She was already there. I was impressed. We...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you want to visit Japan?
Seems like every dude I’ve come across wants to. And then the ones I date get mad that I have no interest in joining them on their visit nor ever going there. I can only think of one ex who didn’t care to visit despite...
Why did his friend laugh about my SH scars?
hungout with a guy (first date-ish) was with him and his 20 other male friends (kind of an awkward situation since i had to hold his bags and his jacket while he rode around town with his friends on their bikes for like 2...
lamuñekita
Xper 3 Age: 27 
I'm genuinely confused. What happened with her PT2?
Continued from first post in dating-I threw seeds at her to try to get her to lighten up. She didn't like it. When we were done I offered to watch a Hallmark movie with her as I promised I would eventually. I moved in for...
VH5150
Xper 2 Age: 38 