PUTTING THIS HERE FIRST: I had one really messed up relationship with a girl who had borderline personality disorder I was 15, she was 18. She was an emotional roller coaster. One minute she loved me the next she hated me. I used to feel butterflies and love with her and my other girlfriends, now it feels like I barely feel anything related to love I’m just not really emotional I’m kinda just neutral
Hello everyone this is going to be a long one, but please stick with me. I think this goes pretty deep and I’m wondering what I can do. I’m a pretty attractive guy I’d say, and I have the courage to go up and talk to women, but my issue also appears to exist with men. Though I have both male and female FRIENDS, and this is great I also run into an issue after one or a few dates with women where they say “I don’t feel a romantic connection.” For a while I thought it was just that we didn’t click, and obviously that’s part of it, but no a lot of the time when women have said that we’ve become friends.
I believe this is partly due to the fact that I have a hard time feeling and expressing my emotions. It’s like I’m pretty neutral as a person. I also am a good listener, but feel I don’t know how to bring in interesting things to talk about that will excite women and make them interested to propel the conversations. I don’t know how to create that spark so to say.
