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I ask because I'm currently texting three women who are in fact married. I have no interest in being with them beyond flirting. I've plainly asked at the beginning if "it's okay" or if "it might cause issues, i can stop" they've all said, No. Yet in several "flirty" texts they say they hope it makes their husbands show some passion towards them if they were to find out. For good or bad, these women seem to wait in relationship limbo, freely flirting with me. Still I know for fact I could end their marriages with three words. It may be part of the reason I'm not in a relationship with anyone anymore. (Trust issues) So I ask again, Are you talking/texting someone you shouldn't?

I've been seeing a lot of stories recently about men who were on the run for a crime and living under assumed names and their own wives didn't even know.

One man robbed a bank when he was young, and he never got caught and lived under an assumed name his whole life, and only told his family his crime and real name when he was on his death bed.

Another man raped a co-worker almost two decades ago, and was on the run and living under an assumed name the entire time, and his wife only found out about it when he was finally caught by police.

Maybe it's just me, but trust and loyalty are extremely important to me. My conscience would never allow me to decieve someone to that degree, and also, I wouldn't marry a woman I couldn't trust with that kind of sensitive information to begin with.

It's truly saddening that someone could be THAT selfish to stoop to that kind of level of deception! Why would they even marry someone they didn't trust? I were those women I would have been furious and heartbroken and would probably never be able to trust another man again.