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Inspired by this question. I said this on there.

"I used to work as a security guard and was a bouncer for a few years, and almost ALL fights in clubs and bars were either started over a woman, or started BY women. A guy flirted with someone's girl, accidentally bumped into her, or a girl got angry with another girl. Hell, if I had a girlfriend, I'd probably fight to protect her, too. If you take women out of the equation, fights among men almost NEVER happen. Cooler heads tend to prevail.

Not with women, though! Women will fight over anything, and then even drag their man into the confrontation as well! Women will even start fights with men, throwing the first punch and thinking that man won't slap the sh*t out of her for it. I believe women are the cause of 95% of all street fights among men."

What do you think? Are most fights among men caused over a woman?

I don’t go out often much nowadays. But I figured I try for the hell of it. A buddy and me hit up a local bar that had a dance floor. Two older women (guessing 10 years older) wanted us to dance with them. Neither was exactly a Jennifer Anniston looking but just for fun I took up their offer.

I did dance with them for two songs. But I made an excuse to get water later and didn’t come back. Neither one of them were attractive but it was obvious they both liked me.

My buddy isn’t picky. He will bang older women, overweight women, very weird women, etc. He has a funny extroverted personality who enjoys a good time which is completely cool. I also don’t mind have friendly chats with women I don’t find attractive. But if they are obviously interested I don’t care to get their hopes up nor just take it because it’s an easy lay. I have to be at least semi interested.

I ended up playing an arcade machine for a while. My buddy came around to check in. Told him my apologies for not wingmanning but he didn’t mind. I later said goodbye and the two older women tried to convince me to stay. But the they got the hint.

Anyway I wondered if I should have stuck around just to chit chat and socialize. Get used to socializing again. But I didn’t want to the uncomfortable moment of telling them no if they wanted to take me home or ask for my number.

I get this feeling when I head to town in the evening and I see all the people gathered at the bar and I am there chilling HAPPILY with my own drink and phone. Now I ask myself why? What if I should have friends to hang out with?

I don't know what women there will think about me... not worth dating this guy? He needs to have at least 1 friend? Perhaps I could explain to her WHY?

p. S.: I do have a reason I ended up like this. I made nothing but small mistakes.

She hit him first.

File this under "F*** around and find out." https://t.co/INwjoOb13w

— Lauren Chen (@TheLaurenChen) October 28, 2022

For those wondering what is happening, the blonde, German woman repeats many time that the Russian man's mother is a whore in a heated exchange with him. More accurately she repeats this phrase repeatedly "you are the son of a Whore”. The Russian man then says "I’ll fuck you” before the German girl gets up in his face and says "fuck me then" aggressively. She then slaps him across the face with her right hand only for the man to immediately slap her back, which causes her to fall to the ground and knock back into the bar's counter.

A Russian man sitting on a stool right next to her can be seen laughing at her misfortune.