I am probably going to get some female hate for posting this. If below pisses you off just pls do not comment if you nothing nice to say.
Truth is I have always strived to be honest w/ girls on dates whether I am interested or not. However one of the risks of dating apps is people sometimes misrepresent themselves. However I have always been honest about my age & I use recent pics.
Anyway I matched up a 27 year old & I am 41. She had an attractive face but I could see she wasn’t exactly a twig. We matched and chatted a bit but she never sent me any more pics of her nor did I ask for them. I figured if we met up for coffee and I didn’t find her attractive and/or didn’t like her personality (or vice versa) it wouldn’t be too bad given it would be a quick date.
Personally I am in still top physically shape. Even at 41 I still have a cut body and visible abs. I exercise at least once a day & eat healthy. I Don’t expect a fitness model date but at least someone who cares about their body
So we texted back & forth for a while. We tried to meet up for coffee but it never worked out. Then she texted me out of nowhere this evening to meet her downtown (I live 20 miles away). I declined at first because of the short notice but she kept insisting so I decided to go last minute. It is Halloween so I figured what the heck. I spent 50 bucks on an Uber to get downtown.
She kept calling me & was obviously drunk. I finally found out what location she was at (a bar). While walking towards the bar I noticed a woman look out the door & looking side to side. I recognized her face but also noticed she was obese. However she did a pretty good job of hiding it on her dating app. She walked back in & didn’t see me.
I realized it would of been a extremely uncomfortable meetup especially since she was drunk. I’ve had some very bad past experiences w/ drunk women wigging out when I rejected them. I texted her up a bs excuse why I couldn’t make it & walked on. What would you have done?
