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Is my father secretly mocking my independence and struggles?
Father always pressured me to help him with his Chinese restaurant since young. Even tried to persuade me to quit university. After uni, I moved back & got suckered into his restaurant. There was conversation of him...
RavenWing057
Xper 4 Age: 32 Why does dating always go wrong for me despite multiple chances?
Woman A: Were on and off for two years and she wanted me to commit to her. When I finally asked her to be my girlfriend, she was no longer interested. She said I was rude to her friends and belittled her job as a nanny....
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I learn to trust and love someone when I suspect everyone lies?
There was a girl in my class today, I asked her what she was doing, and she just said she was at home, and I believe she's a liar. Her Instagram followers increased from 180 to 193 in a week. When did 14 people follow...
quiet_king
Xper 3 Age: 24 Should I trust her and try to pursue a friendship after this?
So I met these girls. They seemed fine but I don't know my gut was off about one of them. Then once, they randomly posted in a group (only had 3 of us in total including me) about some outside plan (see you tomorrow etc....
Anonymous
(36-45) Is "touching grass" truly the solution to polarization in human interaction?
Inspired by a recent and brief discussion with @oneviewpoint Is "touching grass" truly the solution to polarization in human interaction? There are sayings like "in vino veritas", "drunk words reveal sober thoughts", and...
u Was I actually in danger with this older limo driver or just paranoid?
Was in my early 20’s working at my dad’s spot & learned who the regulars were over time. One was this Italian limo driver, always known him by his first name, always tries his luck with me, but I always declined....
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does everyone seem more attractive in this new country than me?
A single guy in a new country, I noticed everything one I see over here is much more attractive then my own country's Especially girls. It's difficult to actually approach someone who is hell of more attractive and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do girls act interested then suddenly date someone else instead of me?
Hello i am 20 years old and i never had a girlfriend!!! I don't easily fall for someone and i could probably count girls i really liked on finger The problem is that i follow same exact patern and it happened 3 times in...
Anonymous
(25-29) He hasn’t opened my message in a day—does that mean he’s not interested?
It is someone from here, we have been talking for a while. We connected a lot. He asked to move to social media. We added each other. It is the first time we are able to see each other's pics and all. I messaged him on...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever thought someone was desperate for you but it turned out they were just treating you like everyone else?
This has probably happened to me multiple times but this post is inspired by my friend explaining "humbling" texts to me. Which she says are when desperate guys try to knock you down a peg after being "made" to put in a...
Girls, is being 180 cm tall a requirement for you to date a guy?
I met my ex while we were sitting across from each other. She said that I was actually pretty handsome, but that my height was too short. I’m 174 cm and she was 160 cm. When I asked what she had expected, she said she...
Anonymous
(18-24) Looking for Input From Shy People?
I am looking for shy people's input. I need insight. To give you a little background: I am a Professional Companionship Coach. I help people by becoming a professional companion (friend or platonic partner), and I teach...
uncarved
Xper 1 Age: 32 Is a 10 year age gap in dating really too much at 23 and 33?
This is kind of a curious question on my end. I know what I think of it, but I wanted to get some more opinions on the topic. There's this lady that shops at my store who I believe is not only one of the nicest customers...
tstarr17
Xper 6 Age: 33 Would you pick love or money? why?
This is a cliche question I’m bringing back. I always tell people who asked me this, both. I am such a lover girl, I wholeheartedly believe if you really love someone… you’ll find a way to make it all work🥲💝
bobalife
Guru Age: 35 Was I wrong to be upset that my boyfriend keeps hanging up on me?
I was on the phone with my boyfriend and in the middle of the conversation the phone hangs up. Mind you.. this is not the first time this happened. So later I called and I asked him did his phone die or did you hung up?...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this girl also at fault, and should I keep my distance from her?
Yes I have asked this question before but I didn't really get much traction on my post so will post a summarized version below. I had gone to a meet and there was this girl who was being rude and kinda condescending but...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I tell which women are actually interested in dating me?
I have been in a lot of dating apps, cafes and socials but I never know which girls to go after. I had a good experience with conversations, but asking for a number got fake numbers, phone died and I don't know my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do we need this stuff?
I bought a new toaster oven last Christmas. It has an app, a WiFi radio, and AI controlled cooking cycles for everything from baking to air frying. I bought a solar charging battery powered skimmer for my pool last...
OneViewpoint
Guru Age: 60 I have a boyfriend but like another guy at school—what should I do?
For starters, I have known my boyfriend since early February and we connected through mutual friends. He goes to a different highschool than me but loves close so we manage to hangout every weekend and it gives us the...
Anonymous
(18-24) Crush ghosted a piano lesson then came back: is he just flaky or not interested?
I'll try keep short. But I've been teaching a guy piano. He is 21 I'm 26. He shows interest in me and he's been asking me more about myself and remembers details like the fact I'm looking for a car etc. he's asked about...
Lalalove11
Xper 6 Age: 26 