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In college-

met a guy a while back, we hit it off immediately and kinda naturally transitioned into a friends with benefit dynamic. After a few weeks, I mentioned we should stop coming over to his place for a while (didn’t want to get attached) and he acted surprised.

he was really sweet, bought me snacks, initiated hang outs etc

he kinda started acting hot and cold afterwards. He would still casually imply to hang out and ask about me and other guys, but takes long to reply/ doesn’t reply to texts. Before when we saw each other we would both be excited but last time we saw each other he was quite cold and aloof and didn't really talk that much, but still sat next to me at event.

Did he lose interest or did he feel like I was indirectly rejecting him by saying should stop coming over for a while (he’s sensitive)

pls help decode this dudes behavior lol

-blair

hi all:) so around 2022 i was having a little friends with benefits thing but we both were only seeing each-other but on the down low, i wanted to be public but kept seeing each-other for a year because i was so emotionally attached to him and was lusting on him, but at that time i was very open about it too my best friend through out 2021/2022 and would always talk about him to her and sometimes i used to even facetime her crying and telling her what he had just done to me she would always comfort me and down talk him saying ewww you need to leave him and all this but silly me never did.

i finally got out of that toxic cycle & cut it off in jan 23 and i drifted from everyone and found a really nice boy but i found out that they actually recently hooked up at a party on the weekend and i asked her about it and she literally just said she went for a walk with him made up a story, but at the end of the day i found out everything cos he can’t keep his mouth closed, HOW DISRESPECTFUL CAN GIRLS BEEEE