You probably shouldn't get involved with this guy- you know it's a bad idea. You letting him pop your cherry isn't going to flip a switch in his head to make him love/ care about you; although, it may get you far more attached (to your own detriment).
He's probably reluctant to get involved with you because guys know the trend of girls to get clingy after they lose their virginity to a guy. We're also in the era of #metoo; so, let's say he does have sex with you, but a relationship doesn't happen, maybe he moves on, THEN you feel bad about it. How common is it for a girl just cry rape?
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Because he knows better , when a girl has feelings we know friends with benefits won't end well and it's only a matter of time before things become more emotionally one sided and dramatic so we avoid it at all cost. I have experience in this and I can assure you he doesn't wanna end up with you getting hurt. You're already attached there are feelings so he's avoiding sex with you because it will likely get worse for you.
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I've been in his position before. I've never blocked anyone, but I've felt incredibly guilty knowing that I was getting what I wanted, but I wasn't able to give her what she wanted. As long as you each have different goals, it will be an unequal relationship and he will essentially be using you. His blocking is probably him trying to help you get over him and find someone who deserves you.
👻. He had to float to another port while the tide was high.
He is flaky. Don't worry, you will meet many more men like that during your lifetime.
They never work out those things
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