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She says she prefers dark‑skinned guys but still compliments me—mixed signals or hiding interest?
I’m trying to decode a girl’s behavior. Here is the timeline: The Indirect: She mentioned that she likes light-colored eyes (I’m the only one in our group with light eyes, so it felt pointed). The Validation: She...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do women know what they want?
To be honest I'm kinda hoping all women on here debate this but there's a theory that when seeking for a partner women say and claim they want what everyone would agree are healthy things for relationships but they go for...
Anonymous
(25-29) What Nationality Are You, And What Nationality of the Opposite Sex Are You Most Attracted To?
I am white American (Dutch and Heinz 57). I'm mostly attracted to white Americans, Italian American, and Greek American guys.
Should be careful in this situation with this man who looks identical to another man I know and don't like, or should I assume it's coincidental?
I got recently approached by a man who I'll call *Marco (not his real name). He was sort of cute and we had a good chat, then he requested that we chat outside the dating site, on social media. After talking for a while,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Did I just get played?
I am very lonely and have no one. No friends, no family, live in a city where its hard as hell to date. So I went on a dating app, very cute guy messaged me. We texted for 2 weeks, we got to know each other very well. By...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I attract men my own age when I look much younger than 38?
I don’t look my age and guys in their twenties hit on me a fair bit, rather than men my own age. I’m turning 38 this year and I want more older men to notice me. Not those who are much younger (more than 5 years younger)....
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Why am I more attracted to naughty guys than polite, nice guys?
I’m always into naughty boys growing up. They are more fun, adventurous, and risk taker. I grew up with my church youth, so I have known plenty of polite boys. Nothing is wrong with them, but I prefer a little naughtiness...
TheLovelyWoman
Xper 6 Age: 42 Does true attraction disappear once you find out someone is taken?
There was a guy I used to think was a gorgeous 10 out of 10, then I learned he was taken, and now he looks like an ugly 1 out of 10 to me. I believe a normal person is wired to lose attraction to people they have no...
Do people actually chase you more when you stop being so nice?
I have this sensitive and sweet side of mine and I do attract people easily but I feel like things don’t deepen much when I am showing that side. On the other hand, I have kind of feisty and blunt and detached and...
How can I shoot my shot with this guy without making it awkward?
There’s a man in my city that I have on social media. We held a few convos over IG over the last year. I’m a direct person so I want to say let’s hangout or something but as a woman, being that direct can throw a man off....
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys actually care more about personality than appearance?
When I was the prettiest I had ever been, I would get approached once every 4 years. When I was the ugliest I had ever been, I would get approached 5 times a month, because I was more confident and intelligent when I got...
Is dating a younger guy in my late 20s worth the risk?
Would you date a younger guy? Any experiences with dating a man 4-6 years younger than you in your 20s under CERTAIN CONDITIONS. I am absolutely NOT attracted to younger men and I turn down men 2 years younger than me…...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can short or average guys attract women and find real love?
Many women seem to be hard on men, especially if they aren't Chads, so what can such men do to attract such women?
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I date a younger guy who’s still figuring out his career and life?
I’ve never been attracted to any guy my age or younger… I like men 4-10 years older… but there’s a nice guy who is a few years younger and he was nice and mannerable … but I’m sure he’s still figuring himself out and he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does it look like im trying to hard to look hot?
I am 50kg and i fill out C cups, but when i wear tops that are tight i dont like how they look so pronounced But when my friend with smaller pair wears it I think it looks cute, I was flat like a year back and now I'm not...
Gamer20282
Xper 2 Age: 25 What is one surprisingly powerful piece of advice that truly worked for you?
Mike Murdoch said, what you respect, you will attract, what you don’t respect, will move away from you. A black doctor said on social media you only need one thing to succeed at your job, which is you have to love it...
Are women never actually attracted to the genuine guys?
Lets just say I have been mostly around women who keep chasing someone who is just worse for them. And it's the same from a guy's perspective as well. I have seen guys who are in a bad relationship as well. I was on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do my friends insist there’s a romantic spark with my longtime guy friend?
My friends know that my guy friend (let’s call him Eddie) and I have been very close since we were seven. After the childhood/middle and high school stories, some are surprised that we never hooked up or dated. My best...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does a guy listening in on my conversation mean he’s attracted to me?
So for context, this I guy in my college class was sitting directly behind this group of girls I was talking to. I was getting really passionate as I was talking about traveling and the places I'd like to go. He was on...
Prairie_Flow3r
Xper 4 Age: 24 