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Search Results: attracting older men
You know the old adage "Tall, dark and handsome", as it pertains to women being attracted to men. What does the "dark" mean and do you agree with it?
A quick websearch says "dark" as in dark hair, black or brown hair and dark eyes. And an often tanned or olive complexion. Do you agree with this? I know some women prefer Latino or Mediterranean skin tones. But it's not...
ChiTown33
Master Age: 50 How do I know if a much older man is into me?
Im a 25F and I'm into older men. I've had a hard time telling the difference between attraction and just being friendly. The men I frequent around at my job are around 50 and pussyfoot around with mixed signals. I dont...
Anonymous
(18-24) How to regain self confidence if I feel ugly?
I got married to my 8 year old boyfriend and now after the marriage he has become very busy. He does kiss me as often. Saying something like his mouth tastes weird. He has stopped lifting me too ( i was 38 kg he used to...
kaleshigirl
Xper 2 Age: 31 Doesn't this 19th-century text remind you of current events?
"our present debates will appear as childish struggles in the eyes of posterity. Nothing exists any longer: authority of experience and age, birth or genius, talent or virtue, all is denied; a few individuals climb to the...
Julie07
Xper 6 Age: 28 Do you think some people are just born to be sluts , or is it because of how they were treated?
And yes Guys’ and Girls’ both can be sluts , , do you think they were born that way or they became that way because of what they experienced in life? Most of our choices and decisions in life stem down to our childhood ,...
Why can’t I find/attract a good man?
I’m 23 and have only been in one relationship before. I don’t sleep around or do hookups, also I don’t wear makeup as I don’t want to A- look older than I do, as I’ve been complimented on how youthful I look compared to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Are women a lot more attracted to men with money/great jobs?
Before you answer "yes, what a stupid question", hear me out, and you'll see exactly why I ask this. I'm 33 years old (at the time of me writing this). I currently own a condo I bought 8 years ago, I currently make about...
tstarr17
Xper 6 Age: 33 When you're interacting with men, do you think it's harder to be an average looking woman vs. an ugly or pretty woman?
I feel like I'm average and being in the middle, you never know what kind of day you'll have. If they're not attracted to me, they either treat me like I don't exist or bully me. However if they find me attractive they'll...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is a bad taste in the opposite sex a red flag for you?
I understand people can pretend to be someone they’re not and by the time you see the real the you miss the old person… Someone who can pretend to be anything you want. That’s not what I’m taking about. I mean men and...
Only attracting black people (men and women)?
I've only ever had black men attempt to "prey" on me (me at ages 12-17, them in their early-mid twenties. Not all black men, of course, but almost always one.) I've also only ever had black girls my age confess to me (one...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I settle for an old man?
I'm 30 years old, live in nyc. I just have never been able to fall in love and I honestly do not think I ever will. I just can't find a man who I find funny. Right now I am just seriously thinking about settling for any...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do I ALWAYS attract older or shorter men?
I am 5’9” and even though it isn’t very tall, it’s tall for a woman. I always look massive around my shorter friends because my girl pals are 5’5-4’9. They always get cute guys or any guy’s attention, especially tall men...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does my sister keep encouraging me to give my guy best friend a chance when I complain about no guys I want like me?
I’ve had a few boyfriends, dates but they ended up in a disaster. I was dating this one guy for four months but we ended up hanging fights and he thought I was using my disability as an excuse and I would fight to keep...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I take advantage of being physically good looking and flirtatious to create a better life for myself?
I’m 27, and recently I had a major glow-up. Before, I never really had men I was interested in notice me, but now It’s a whole different story. Everywhere I go, I notice that men : young, older, my type, the most...
melonbabyy
Xper 1 Age: 28 I was 23 dating a 60 year old man. Why am I attracted to much older?
Yes, I truly liked him. It was not about money, or no weird stuff like that. I was 19 dating a 33 year old as well lasted a year then I broke up with him. I’ve always really really loved older men. I always love older...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
Being pretty makes me feel more socially anxious?
Being pretty makes me feel more socially anxious? I grew up feeling shy and invisible, with no confidence in the way I looked. I’m older now and guess I’ve had a “glo up”. I can tell men are attracted to me and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I the jerk in this situation?
(Context: I knew this woman who was older than me I used to hang out with back in the day over a decade ago. I was into her back then but she never gave me the time of day and threw herself at jerks and pretty boys -- I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why are single women made fun of?
A lotta women are made fun of for being single as they get older, as if no man wants them. As if they are desperate. But reality is... having through this experience myself. It is unlikely that she can't find any man who...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is an underrated green flag in a guy? Are there any specific things you are attracted to?
As I’m getting older, I’m starting to find things I once took for granted becoming more attractive. For example men with emotional maturity, accountability/ willing to admit fault and committed to truly getting to know me...
Anonymous
(25-29) 