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I keep seeing people say that even in a committed relationship, your phone should be off-limits because "everyone deserves privacy."

But honestly, if you have nothing to hide, why does it matter? If my partner wants to see my messages, I’d let them—because I have zero secrets. To me, being "protective" over a passcode feels like a huge red flag.

Guys and Girls:

Do you think total transparency is the standard, or is a "private phone" a basic right?
Would you give your partner your passcode right now if they asked?

I got in my first relationship weeks after I turned 18 and it was out of pity. I didn't really love or even felt sexual attraction to my first girlfriend.

she liked me however and at the time she recently got out of a very life threatening toxic relationship with an asshole who used to abuse her and assaulted her with every random household object he got his hands on. one night her family rescue her from his claws but unfortunately she got emotionally involved and when back to him days later.

he even returned with her that night she when back to him with a machete in his hands threatening her family that he was going to "chop her into piece" if they try to take her away from him again. lucky for her after that night the whole neighbor sided with her family and were able to rescue her from him and she never got emotionally evolved again. days later she found me and fell in love with me.

- therefore my good Gemini side felt bad for her and was telling me to get with her and show her what good man was.

- however my bad Gemini side in the other hand was tired of being an 18 year old incel so it was telling me "this is you best opportunity, why let it go to waste?"

till then it was the pity that I had for her that made me fall in love with her, but I never told her this and she probably knew either way. but I wonder if this would actually hurt a woman's ego, knowing that the man she's with is with her out of pity and not desire

Lots of social media accounts (that are clearly bots) do nothing but fan the flames of racial hatred. Any dispute/argument between different races is often used to validate people's belief of seeing said group as savages that are unsuitable to live with. In addition, many of these accounts tend to skew people's perception of crime by only posting one group committing all the crime and never reporting about anything else.

For example. Black bouncer has an altercation with a white male, who actually assaulted the bouncer first. Racist account on X try to spin this as blacks being savages and claiming that the bouncer did this unprovoked.

Black bouncer attempts to murd*r white college student.

Whether you want to admit it or not, we are at war.pic.twitter.com/XqNgjdoU0m

— aka (@akafaceUS) September 30, 2025

Content creators on social media aren't any better as a lot of them will spew racial hatred if they think that will get them views and it is what their audience wants to here.

And if you go through the comments, you will see lovely images like this

Being racist to Indians is normalised online. They never mention that we commit little to no crime, and are very successful and the highest earning group of people in the west. No one knows it’s the 4th strongest military and potential could be a global superpower. No one talks about how rich the culture is. People have always looked down on us because we have darker skin. It’s a skin colour issue. When have we gotten credit for anything? Even south Asian girls complain that white people steal their fashion and will never comment on it but say if their skin care is Japanese etc…

People literally post the worst poverty stricken areas of India and that’s their only image of India, not all this: like all countries have disgusting areas. There’s so many parts of India that are like the best paradise you’ve ever seen…. yet that’s not what the world wants you to believe. I just have to pity everyone.