they are incapable of being a man, can't be committed forever, lack self controls, can't be trusted around women, can't be left alone etc
why anyone want to deal with them?
they are incapable of being a man, can't be committed forever, lack self controls, can't be trusted around women, can't be left alone etc
why anyone want to deal with them?
You can look at it that way
Because ur 100 % Right
But that's with that type of man
How about the?
Guy that knows what he wants.
O, he's going to go out with women. Have fun, get it all out of this system.
And he knows when that will be and then he will find The Girl of his Dreams and be the best man that she's ever had. Because he's already been through all the c***That's why he took his time and got it out of this system. He got to read other women who they are. What they do.
And then he finally finds the one that doesn't do all that crap and he's ready
That's when you blew it. By thinking the way you just let go of the perfect guy
Not 100% true. Maybe there’s something about you that they don’t like. I mean you’re in your early to middle 30s. I think you’re realizing men just don’t really want you now, so you’re using that as an excuse. There’s a lot of men whom would love to be husbands, but statistically speaking women find about 80% of them unattractive so there you go. You’re fishing for the ones that have a lot of options besides you.
What type of guys do you think I am attracted to since you said I am fishing for them?
Why do you think I am single? I am not married but not single. I will be a wife when I am ready. I been avoiding men before and I am 30 now. there is something I don't like about him and I am going to tell him to quit his profession and, what if I find some else before I get married to him? yes I am attracted to him
lol keep telling yourself that. There’s something wrong w you that’s why you’re not a wife right now. But keep telling yourself you’re just avoiding it.
by the way he's the one who wants to marry me. and keep telling myself what? just because I'm not a wife right now doesn't mean there's something wrong w me. I wasn't looking for a husband before and not telling myself I am just avoiding since I wasn't looking for them
But you don’t want to marry him?
i only want to get married once and want it to be forever so I need time to think
Understandable. Have you been in a long term relationship before?
Some men who have had many casual partners may struggle with commitment because they’ve built habits around novelty, validation, and freedom rather than stability and responsibility. If they haven’t done the inner work to shift their mindset, they can become unreliable partners who avoid accountability and seek constant stimulation. However, it’s not the past alone that defines someone’s ability to be a good husband, it’s whether they’ve grown out of those patterns and developed discipline, integrity, and emotional maturity. Without that growth, trusting them long-term becomes very difficult, which is why many people choose not to take the risk.
Trust should be based on his current character and consistent actions within the committed relationship, not solely on the quantity of his previous sexual activity. However, some men are simply not husband material, as the blue anon on here clearly demonstrates.
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All the dudes defending it have likely slept around a fair bit.
It's a fact that as your sexual partners increases, the chances of you lasting in a long term relationship or marriage are very low. This goes for both men and women.
Anyone, man or woman that has EVER had casual sex/ONS/friends with benefits should be avoided for a relationship.
It depends on the situation and specific person. Sometimes they’re dating around and cannot commit due to deeper issues.
Why anyone want to deal with em?
Its because he has something that attract those women to sleep with him, and its obviously has nothing to do with morality
Men who have slept with many women are exactly the men that women want for husbands which is why they have slept with many women.
No one wants to deal with guys on the opposite side of the spectrum either.
Why are you worried about this when we all know you will never have a husband?
Someone doesn't wanna act right
I think it's issues from childhood
No. It's from dealing with lots of different women.
@Ariesman81 right, but these guys can't stick to one woman
Can't or know better?
@Ariesman81 can't
Wrong
@Ariesman81 right
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