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This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

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This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

Any of you who have read my takes know they're generally controversial, but I think this one is a little more of a popular opinion and will hit home for most. I'm going to share what I believe most men want women to bring to the table in a romantic relationship. The interesting thing about this is that I think most of these (if not all) apply to what women want in men as well. Let's jump right in!

So the first is...

Emotional Security & Peace

You hear men talking about peace all the time nowadays. But what does it really mean? In a world that expects men to constantly be competitive and resilient, a relationship should be seen as a sanctuary and a safe space. Men want a partner who is a source of calm and comfort, not additional drama.

Imagine a low-conflict home environment, a partner who is supportive during stressful times, someone who doesn't hold grudges or engage in constant emotional rollercoasters, and who can de-escalate tension rather than amplify it.

Simply put... a safe space to be vulnerable and recharge.

This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

Secondly, we have...

Respect & Admiration

For many men, respect is almost the equivalent of, or a huge aspect of feeling loved. It’s about feeling valued for their capabilities, judgment, and character.

Speaking positively about him to others (the "brag factor"), trusting his decisions, appreciating his efforts (even small ones), and valuing his opinions. It’s about seeing him as a capable person you're proud to be with.

Simply put... to feel needed and valued, not just wanted.

This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

Thirdly, there's...

Trust & Loyalty

This is a given in any relationship and pretty obvious, but it had to be said. It's the core of any relationship. When a man has confidence that his partner is reliable, has his back, and is committed to him above all others, he's sleeping like a baby each night.

Every man wants his partner to be emotionally and physically faithful, defend him in his absence, and be a true partner "on his team" through good times and bad.

Simply put... the security to be fully invested in the relationship without fear of betrayal.

This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

Next we have...

Partnership & Teamwork

Another obvious-sounding one. But its meaning is lost among many people these days. It means having a "teammate" to tackle life's challenges with. A dynamic which shifts the dynamic from "me and you" to "we."

It's about sharing responsibilities (financial, household, emotional), making decisions together, supporting each other's goals, and celebrating successes as a shared victory.

Simply put... to not feel alone in the struggle of life... to have a true companion.

This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

The fifth is...

Physical Intimacy & Affection

While a lot of people just see this as sex, there's more to it than that. It's about a fulfilling sexual connection and non-sexual physical affection.

Imagine having a healthy and active sex life where both you and your partner feel desired and satisfied. It includes hugging, holding hands, a touch on the arm... basically affection that communicates "I love you" outside of the bedroom.

Simply put... to feel desired and connected on a physical, primal level.

This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

Sixth up is (and it's an important one)...

Authenticity & Low Maintenance

This doesn't mean being low-effort in the relationship. It means being genuine, comfortable in your own skin, and not requiring constant external validation or creating unnecessary drama.

Let me paint the picture. You have your own hobbies, friends, and life. You're direct and honest in communication. You don't play games or expect him to read your mind. And you're able to have fun and be silly without being self-conscious.

Simply put... a relationship that feels easy and genuine, not a constant performance or a source of stress.

This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

Ending on the seventh for good luck is...

Effective Communication

I can't stress the importance of communication in a relationship. Having the ability to talk about issues, feelings, and desires openly and respectfully is paramount. It’s not about never having conflict, but about handling it constructively.

It means being able to discuss problems without blame or contempt, actively listening, and expressing needs clearly instead of dropping hints.

Simply put... to feel heard and understood, and to be able to solve problems together as a team.

This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table

If you can bring all of this in a relationship, it's likely he'll be one happy camper. Obviously there's other factors involved in a successful relationship, like compatibility, but that's a story for another day. Wish you all well in your romantic life!

This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table
This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table
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